Do u guys rate a girl with your friends when they ask you out or like u r just talking to? is that with close friends or everyone?

[Anonymous]

I have seen the boys I thought were the nicest to discuss about women in really bad ways.. apparantly a boy I liked discussed about my boobs to someone he knew but wasn't even a close friend.. idkk is that disrespectful? The first time I saw him I really fall in love with him.. the way he laughed and made me laugh the kind of energy he had and the only thing he could think of is my body? I feel weird that what kind of discussion they had about my body part.. randomly.. I just feel weird near all of them now. i heard boys are very possessive about their girls so i assumed they won't objectify them? but bis it a book/movie scene and far away from reality?

[MrOracle]

I'm not sure exactly how old you are, but you'll find that lots of women do the exact same thing with men. Not saying that it's any better, but it's certainly not limited to men doing it to women.

The other thing is that it's usually complimentary. I understand that it might make you uncomfortable, but at least usually guys talking about what they find physically attractive, rather than something negative.

[strateguy632]

it is not the "only thing" but it is significant to us. you should chill instead of over reacting. pervert MEANS something... else.

[Asker]

Yeah u r right ig... but don't you think that having a discussion about some girl like this with your friends is weird... or do you people do this for the people you don't like actually 🫠🫠 am i just overreacting?

[Zayeem]

That's true really. But i don't discuss about any girl with my friends. specially when it is about her looks or physical figure. But i think in my mind tho.😆

[boobliker]

not when we are with them but maybe latter if asked

[Iron_Man]

No, that’s not my style to rate girls

[In_Trance]

No i don't