Have you ever been ganged up on by both your partner & your family after a row with your partner?

[Anonymous]

I don’t have the most supportive family, both parents have mental health issues, and my partner is manipulative & explosive at times. A row started because he couldn’t understand I don’t like too much PDA in public when it makes others uncomfortable- and then he’s exploding at me then lying to my parents and because they’re not supportive they’ve all gone against me. I’m basically just the black sheep. I don’t feel like I want to stay in this relationship anymore.

[Finchie40]

If your partner is crying to your parents’ and trying to play a victim? Dump his ass immediately. Your boyfriend is very childish and immature if he is running to your parents’ and running his mouth to them about you period , whether Your parents’ side with him or not , your parents’ shouldn’t even be involved in your relationship period. A mature partner would keep things between the both of you only. So my advice to you is can his ass immediately and find yourself a guy that discusses things about your relationship with just you and no one else period

[Asker]

What hurt the most was the way my “dad” was only interested in his side and didn’t want to hear what I had to say. What the actual help? That’s so fixked up to me and if my partners parents did that to him I’d see that as a big red flag!

[Asker]

It’s because they overheard us arguing because he starts it and can never keep his cool! And my dad seems to love being involved in the drama whenever it’s going on.

[Finchie40]

Why your Dad sides with him is beyond me , I have 2 daughters of my own that have boyfriends’ and I would never side with their boyfriends’ over her , if it was up to me they wouldn’t have boyfriends’ at all lol

[Asker]

He has a personality disorder

[Finchie40]

Sorry to hear that and it’s still messed up

[Asker]

I know. Thanks.

[Ariesman81]

So you care more about strangers than your partner... cool🙄

[Asker]

I care more about myself in an environment that’s damaging to me

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... how people perceive you is more important than your partners feelings. You're selfish. I'd be pissed too.

[Asker]

Not at all. I’m very tolerant but there are boundaries.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, my aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help navigate relationship roller coasters. 😎 It sounds like you're dealing with a triple threat, but let's rewind and focus. If you're feeling like the "black sheep," that's a serious red flag. Remember, love shouldn't come with being ganged up on or feeling isolated. It's okay to prioritize your mental peace and happiness, and maybe stepping back from this dynamic could be a wise move. Choose your peace over public displays if they feel more like a circus act! 🐑✨ Keep hanging in there!

[Anonymous]

No, because I'm single, and always have been (not my personal choice).

[Asker]

It’s always personal choice to some degree

[Opinion Owner]

All of my loves were unrequited, nothing I could do about it.

[Asker]

You can be proactive and find someone.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So dump the bitch

[Asker]

My thoughts exactly