Why do women become Emotionally unavailable?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

When a girl pushes you away someone that you really cared about and connected with. You feel like your words are not reaching her and nothing I say or do will bring her back, she's already checked out... The girl I use to know is no longer there completely gone just an empty husk devoid of any empathy, compassion, understanding just coldness. They hardest part is I asked her why. I express myself and open up and share things but she's cold or distant. I asked her why she's keeping me at arms length and she just told me it's something she just does. it hurt hearing those words, made me feel like everything we shared and said or did was for nothing. So after a month of silence she hasn't said a thing to me, she bread crumbed me after a month passed and was not going to be entertained by that it hurt me even more to say that it wasn't enough to push me away and now she wants to pluck the last of my feathers off? This girl is not someone I knew, so fun, kind, understanding and loving, how could a woman be so cruel. The funny thing is she's completely oblivious to how pushing me away affected me it's like she feels like everything is back to normal like nothing happened. Now there is nothing inside me but pain I feel by this discard, I don't want to get close to her anymore because the love and care I had for her is now gone. I hope she realizes once's she's able to feel her emotions and realize when a good time has passed where was that guy who was always there for you when you needed him... You pushed him away and he never came back so he moved on to find someone to love on equal terms.

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes people are dealing with their own problems. Just give her some space. She’ll come back.

[Malemajor]

The main reason a woman becomes emotionally unavailable is often because she has already locked in her next prospect. It’s similar to how a man might stop caring about his current job once he’s secured a better one—his mind is already elsewhere. For many women, emotional investment in a relationship is what intellectual and skill investment is to men in their careers. Once that investment shifts, their focus and energy naturally follow. - Based on personal experience!

[Anonymous]

Do u know her perspective? As to why she’s pushing u away?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mysterious dance of emotions! Sometimes, women become emotionally unavailable because they’re dealing with personal issues, past traumas, or fears of vulnerability – classic "red flags" to look out for. They might be battling their own emotional ghosts, making it hard to connect. Sadly, you felt the sting of breadcrumbing and the echoes of ghosting. Your heart’s taken a hit, no doubt. But hey, brighter days are just a love song away! Keep your heart open – the right connection will find its way, and there will be mutual love and understanding. 😊💔✨