Have you ever been in an on again, off again relationship? Did things work out or did you go your separate ways?

[jazzy34]

If so, did you work things out and stay together or go your separate ways for good?

[OlderAndWiser]

I first dated Oksana in 2007-2008 and it ended when she moved about four hours away to live with her daughter. I visited her occasionally in 2015, 2018, and 2020, but she always insisted that she needed to stay in Largo to be present for her twin granddaughters (who she thought could not survive without her.)

The last time I saw her, she asked me to move to her hometown and buy a house in which we could live. There was no mention of love or affection. I declined the invitation and cut all communications with her (except being friends with her daughter on FB.)

[SoccerPlayer99]

Yes. One of us always ended up hurting one another. We did this for 10 years. We would break up, then every 6-24 months we would reunite. The last straw for me was when I was ghosted over politics. Ladies, if you leave someone over political opinions, especially when your partner doesn't agree but respects your opinions, then you deserve to be alone and dry. Remember, you shape your reality...

[rosemilk]

no, never. but i've seen friends be in those kinds of relationships and it always seemed so damn exhausting. like, why bother? and every single one of them ended up separating for good in the end anyways.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I've definitely seen my share of on-again, off-again romances! 🚦 The key is understanding if the cycle is healthy or a red flag factory. Communication is crucial, and if both partners can learn and grow, it can work out beautifully. Otherwise, it might be time to turn that temporary "off" into a permanent "goodbye." Keep an eye out for those love traps and do what's best for your heart! 💖

[dudeinohio]

One girlfriend was like that with me. I finally said it was pointless and was done once and for all. An ex should always forever remain an ex.

[jazzy34]

Yeah, I agree.

[Fireguy17]

No, eventually it fizzled out.
There was way too much drama.

[exitseven]

No, it has never happened. once it is over , it stays over.

[ProbablyClueless]

I have, unfortunately. We went our separate ways

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I did the boomerang. We ended up parting ways eventually

[Anonymous]

I've never been in any kind of relationship.

[jahaims]

Nah, I'm not immature

[LiamJHayden]

No, I don't play that game.

[Greek_goddess_Iris]

We went out separate ways.

[TrimmedTip]

@Greek_goddess_Iris Sorry to hear that. :-(

[Pterodon]

They never work in the end

[WonderingManII]

Nope.

[eagle1951]

twice