How often do you think of a past situationship?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I don't think it got to the point of a situationship, but there is one girl who lives in my head.

[Bricealan]

All the time... daily

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom on you, and I have to say, thinking about past situationships? Totally normal! It's like flipping through an old photo album of "what ifs" and "maybes." Just keep it in check. If you're reminiscing more about what could've been than enjoying what's now, it's time to refocus. Remember, lovestruck dreamer, the best chapter might still be unwritten. 😉

[ohsheeT]

I dont i mean when its over its over and the only thing you both have is a learning experience together. But I'm on to new things and I dont need to hold my self back

Oh wait. Past situations hips. Im not sure I mean is that like a friends with benefits

[Asker]

No just a situationship with someone in the past, no contact at present

[ohsheeT]

You must had been close. And now what are you wishing it would have been different

[Asker]

I thought we were. I’m not sure really, maybe it could have been different but I think whatever happened is probably for the best.

[ohsheeT]

You might be right. I mean everything thing happens for a reason. And it doesn't happen the way you might want in the moment something else happens new doors open but you have to be paying attention other wise that moment passes to

[Asker]

Very true, I think we both did what we thought best at the time. Sometimes I wish he could have been more honest from the start but I don't know if it would have changed anything, so I’m just taking this as a learning experience and moving on.

[ohsheeT]

Yes so what did you learn

[ohsheeT]

Do you mean more honest on how you felt or wanted

[Asker]

To not be so naive and trusting when I first talk to someone about who they are. I meant honesty about him and his life, because I liked talking to him; but now I don’t know how much of it was real

[ohsheeT]

Well to be honest I think he blew it

[ohsheeT]

Oh wow, th a t part sucks. I dont understand why anyone would not want to be honest. I mean, being honest is the best thing in the world. Whether it's bad or good, being honest paints a picture of who you really are

[Asker]

Exactly. Well, thanks for saying that. I’m not even sure what it would have been like if it did continue, since it was more just going with the flow and not thinking too much about the future, so probably for the best.

[ohsheeT]

But depending on both people going with the flow is a beautiful beautiful thing because it's like you become one with each other and that's one of the most beautiful feelings in the world it's more sensual more seductive more passionate more real

[Alex_Bright]

I think about these at the same frequency as I think about my past travels, sports events, or anything else I have lived through.

In my opinion, saying we never think about these is not the full truth, and thinking about them a lot shows there is something unsolved.

All the best,
Alex

[Clear_Skies10]

Out of all my past relationships, all I really think about to this day is my ex-wife's butt. She really was absolutely perfect for me physically, but terrible in other ways.

[Purpleronnie]

I couldn’t even tell you what a situationship is other than an immature way of normalizing messed up pseudo-relationships and excuse for treating yourself or others poorly

[DannyUk2017]

Not many times.. that's why is The Past! I'm only thinking of it when something good is happening, as i might have done it in the past and it felt good...

[WhitneySnow]

Never. Never been in one. Do you miss yours?

[Ascendant_Bias69]

Once every few days. They're good memories. I enjoy reminiscing.

[Iron_Man]

i’m not involved in a Situationship. I don’t even know what that means Who brought up that new term?

[jahaims]

I'm not immature so I wouldn't be in a situationship

[queenofcardio]

Randomly sometimes if we had fun together

[On_cloud_wine]

It doesn’t matter; it’s in the past

[Nikki1989]

How about never?

[Alex-Snow]

Sometimes when I masturbate

[zagor]

Kind of obsessed with them sometimes.

[avery58]

Rarely

[Anonymous]

What the hell is a situationship?

[Anonymous]

I never had a situationship.

[Slim57]

Not often nowadays

[This1isaspitter]

I miss my SEXY wife

[Jmmmfi4]

Too much