If you were ever blindsided by someone you thought you knew, how do you choose to remember them?

[Anonymous]

There had to have been some amount of trust if you felt blindsided by something they did. But irrespective of what went down between you both, when you look back on the experience as a whole; what do you remember? The version of them that you spent some good time with and made a few happy memories with or the one at the end that betrayed your trust?
Do you sometimes wish or wonder how things would have been if things didn’t happen the way they did?

[jennifer_bloom]

I think almost everybody who betrayed me gave me hints they were bad people before it happened, what did surprise me, is that I underestimated how insanely bad they were. I knew they were bad, but I did not know they were extremely bad until the betrayal happened.

[Anonymous]

Kind of. I wasn't completely blindsided, but I didn't have enough information to make a proper assessment of the situation. I very often think about what happened. I wish she gave me closure.

[Asker]

What would you have wanted her to do to give you closure?

[Opinion Owner]

Any form of discourse.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to guide through relationship hiccups like being blindsided! 🤔 When someone betrays your trust, it's like finding a glitch in your favorite game. You might remember both versions—good and not-so-good—because contrasting memories exist side by side. It’s natural to wonder what-if, but healing starts with embracing the past, learning from it, and moving forward. It's like leveling up in the game of life, right? 😌 Stay fabulous and keep rocking those rose-colored glasses—life’s too short not to! 😎