Have you ever defended your partner’s honor?

[Anonymous]

For many years I wondered what I would do if I had a girlfriend and some guy grabbed her ass or something. I would want to punch him but that’s illegal. I’d wanna do more than punch him but that’s extra illegal. And if she's hot does that mean I’d have to ward off guys like this more than a less hot girl?

I’m kind of an ugly incel so this probably won’t happen to me, so I’m asking to hear other people’s experiences. What did you do? Did you get in trouble? Would you do it again? How often does it happen based on what criteria? Or maybe you were the one being defended. I want to hear your story.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

When I was 20, a guy was sexually harassing my girlfriend while she was waiting outside a store for me to pick her up (I got off work 30 mins after her). She called me at work (from a payphone, long time ago lol) and I could hear him in the background harassing her, talking a lot of shit saying he was going to fuck her silly and shit like that. I left work immediately, hauled ass and drove up, hopped out the car, she pointed to the guy, who was there with a couple friends. I turned around and went full beserk on him and kicked the living shit out of him. I invited his friends to join him, they declined and backed off. She got in the car, then I kicked him one last time and told him if I ever see him again that I wouldn't go so easy on him, got in my car and left.

Looking back, if a cop was there, I would have been arrested for assault. But still I don't regret it. Disrespect is disrespect, and some lessons need to be learned correctly.

[DonaldDarko]

More of the jungle mentality. Human sexuality works on an animal level, in fact many aspects of human's work on an animal level but sexuality most of all. Men rut like animals in bars, that's why they fight in there. The women watch and get off on that shit. Terrance Popp did a video outlining the legal consequences of getting in these fights. Even if you win, you loose. There's another video of some army ranger or something that hit some guy in a bar. He cracked the guy's orbital bone so he ended up giving him all the combat pay he earned in Iraq that year and selling his truck to pay off the rest. That big ape lost that fight even though he won. Believe you me it's all bull shit women only want you for what you can do, fight for them and buy them stuff. You're a donkey for them to use.

[Vevv123]

I was the one being defended. I rented a room and some guy tried to open my door really late at night, I had to call my dad to pick me up and the next day my dad yelled at him.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Crikey lady - hotel security or the cops yikes that's scary 😰 like a movie scene

[mysteriousNicholas]

I'm so glad I live a sheltered shell life 🐢🐢

[Vevv123]

@mysteriousNicholas it wasn’t a hotel, I rented a room in a house with my ex so I didn’t really have to worry about living with other people, but we had separated shortly before that, so I was alone with my son, the guy who rented another room got drunk and came and tried to ask me to open my door so we could “talk”, and when I said no, he started pushing and fidgeting with the knob. My room had a door leading to the yard, but I didn’t drive so I just had to wait for my dad to arrive and when he did I was out of there. But yes, it was very scary. It was also a harsh reality for me at the time because I honestly thought the people I lived with were safe to be around.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, he is a big boy that can look after himself.

[ShellyB]

Well I don’t fight like with martial arts or something. But I do stick up for him when people make comments that I think are meant to put him down. For example we were standing around outside a bar having beer with some people I know from college and Chris knows them a little through me. One of the guys, who I think has always kind of liked me, said something like “Shelly’s the catch. Chris is … ah, he’s OK I guess.” Or something like that. I said “Chris shows up when you need him. When my grandma’s Internet went down, he spent half his Saturday driving out and fixing it so she could Facetime my cousins when they had planned. That is who he is. He doesn’t need to put other people down to feel bigger.” I was trying to be cool but I was getting kind of annoyed and I think I said the last sentence or two kind of harshly, anyway he got the point and so did the other people there.

As for him defending my honor he has done that also, both verbally and in a physically protective way although he has not needed to get in a fight for me. But a lot of times he gets between me and any possible threat or kind of looms or whatever to calm a situation down. As far as verbally, the first example I think of is that somebody implied I was a schemer and he said “Shelly has never done anything to anybody. The truth is the truth. Shelly is true.” Which I appreciated although I have done some kind of mean things in my life lol. I wasn’t doing anything mean in that situation.

[BadApple69]

I’ll never back down from a challenger. Being 6’2” and 220lbs I’ve never had to fight for my girls honor. But I did fight for a friend’s honor once. She was dating this real asshole (excuse my french) and we were all out at a club and I saw him smack her. I saw red, I walked up to him and bitch slapped him hard. I asked if he liked it? He didn’t answer. I asked if he wanted another? He said no…. So I asked again if he liked it. He said no so I informed him if he ever touches her again I’ll knock his teeth out. They broke up that night. That dude had a big hand print on his face the color of a ripe tomato. No remorse.

[msc545]

One day somebody's going to put a few bullets into you over this kind of shit. Learn to mind your own business and mind your mouth and maybe it won't happen.

[Staximus]

@msc545 what the hell is wrong with you, dude? You don't just stand there when a guy starts hitting a woman

[msc545]

I'm never going to get involved in a situation like that because no woman is worth it.

[Staximus]

@msc545 it's not about a woman being worth it, it's about common decency and standing up for what's right. If you just let shit bags be shit bags, they will never stop

[msc545]

@Staximus You are entitled to your own definitions of "common decency and standing up for what's right".

I am never getting into legal or medical trouble over some woman and her mouthing off.

[Staximus]

@msc545 there's no excuse for hitting a woman unless she is physically attacking somebody

[msc545]

@Staximus Agreed. However, if she calls the cops, whether you hit her or not, you are going to jail and then court, and you are guilty automatically.

[Staximus]

@msc545 yeah but what's that got to do with the price of tea in China? We are talking about a guy hitting a woman

[msc545]

@Staximus I don't think we are. The question ws about "defending her honor", not "her safety". These are different in important ways.

[BadApple69]

That was a long time ago…. Although I would do the same thing to this day! I will always stand up for the underdog, even you msc545.
As for someone putting a few bullets into me I’m lucky enough to carry a gun everywhere I go and in all 50 states thanks to HR218.
Now a gun isn’t a shield so it won’t stop me from getting shot but if someone does shoot me, he better kill me on the first shot (he won’t get a second). 😉

[msc545]

Sure ok.

[jamesgoldman]

Not directly but back in my restaurant days

One of the waitresses (we later dated, she liked me already and I didn't notice/believe it when others told me) came through crying because a customer had done something but he had been a prick all night
Suddenly the chef just goes I'll sort this and invites me to join him so we ended up with the pizzamaker, a waiter, the owner and the other owners 'boys' (it was a mob joint to boot)
Before he knew it, he'd been lifted up in his chair like a Jewish wedding but rather than music and Mazel Tov, he was carried outside and dumped in the gutter with his bill paid and banned by the owner

[msc545]

A lot of guys get themselves in trouble over this sort of thing. Women are frequently very provocative men and this is not just your girlfriend being sexy with you but also her being sexy with other guys and saying and doing things that you are not aware of that cause these kinds of problems. When men get angry about this kind of thing, there are usually some pretty serious fights. Lots of arrests and some serious injuries and deaths that occur. Let your girlfriend defend herself. It's not your job. You didn't sign up for it and you don't have to get hurt or arrested or thrown in jail because somebody said something unpleasant to her. Women are always talking about how tough they are and how they don't need men. Prove it.

[BonzoInBitburg]

That's high school stuff. If your girlfriend is hot she knows how to handle herself. When we go to the bar or beach and a guy approaches my wife, her go to line is "I don't date guys who look like Uber drivers"

[mysteriousNicholas]

"I'm just trying to make a living" - 🤭🤭🤭 - and I respect their profession. 🍔 When I'm hungry, they're there

[Pumpkinpie222]

Wait why doesn’t she say “I’m married”?

[BonzoInBitburg]

@Pumpkinpie222 She says if she's wearing a wedding ring and gets approached, it's better to be insulting

[molonski2]

Sure I have , , I had one particular girl who would put herself into circumstances she should not have , this happens..

Id never just stand back , a man always needs to protect and take care , I back myself in , respect always needs to be earned in this circumstance.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Bro, I'm no ugly and I'm no incel, however I'm always grateful to my lucky stars ⭐✨ and believe in deities or a deity or devil 😈 if it means I never have situations like that or worse to worry about 😁😁😁✌️.

After all - I want to be everyone's friend (public relations) 😎 ya dig? After all - keeps me from a broken jaw and keeps me from being tough

[Staximus]

Never had to, but I've thrown a few guys out of the bar I worked at for grabbing girls' asses. About 25 years ago two guys tried to follow my drunk friend into an outdoor bathroom down by the beach after they saw her walk by, at 3 a. m. in the morning. She was too drunk to notice them, and they didn't see me running up behind them. When they heard my footsteps behind them, they turned around and I pulled out my knife. They promptly fucked off back the way they came.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It was more an exquisite symphony of scathingly honest words that left her red faced. Ex's who lost out and regret can be a slight annoyance until you deal with them bluntly.

[Phoenix98]

Never really been in a position where I would actually need to say or do anything. Obviously I would act accordingly if I ever found myself to be put in that sort of situation.

[Orion84]

If saving my girlfriend from a rapist counts, then yes, I have.

[Dargil]

Yes. My wife against my parents. They were right and I knew it.

[Anonymous]

punching a stranger in a face just because he groped your girlfriend just means you likely have anger or self esteem issues.

[Panthero80]

No, I have never dated girls who attract louts.

[SolitarySolace]

Never. Because they’ve never defended mine

[DrPepper12]

Nope. She does quite well without me!

[zagor]

Never had the situation come up.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, so no.

[Metaworld]

It's kind of fun to watch the pink guys reply 😜

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Anonymous]

I did numerous times