Do you expect your partner to back you up in a dispute if you're in the wrong?

[Desconhecida]

[DizzyDesii]

Yes. Have my back then tell me in private i was wrong so i can say “Well damn” and then we laugh about it. He doesn't have to tell me I’m right but shit cheer me on like “Yea baby, you tell em!!” 🤣

[Desconhecida]

Perfect answer! 🤣🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Haha thank you

[Prettygurl12]

My husband and I tell each other, "I'm on your side because you're my spouse and I love you, but I disagree" when we find ourselves in this position lol

[OlderAndWiser]

No. I don't expect my partner to take my side in every dispute and I do not expect her to make all of my enemies into all of her enemies. But if she cannot take my side, I expect her to remain out of the fray and neutral. If she thinks I am in th wrong, she can address that in private and I will isten but do NOT do that in public!

[ohshee]

I think my son was like 6 years old and some guy came over to my house that used to work for me and I really didn't like him that much but I was on the phone and my son and this guy were talking and they were making it better about something and they started getting loud then I got off the phone I said what's going on and my son says that I have a question for you I forget what the question was but he asked me the question consider who's right Dad this is for five bucks tell him who's right Dad and I said well he is and my son's jaw just about dropped explain the reasoning behind it why he was right and the guy wanted to five bucks women he got that and then I said ok Google we got to go do stuff so you better go. My son didn't turns to me and says Dad I'm your blood. I am your son you don't even like that guy how come you didn't say I was right and I said because you were wrong I'm not going to cheat somebody just because you want me to cheat I said as you can see I don't care if it's my worst enemy right is right wrong is wrong and that's who you have to be in life you got to be honest next time you make a bet make sure you have the right answer I'm not going to play favorites they said it would just be wrong if I would have lied don't you think and after that little thing he kind of changed a little bit he just thought about fingers deeper so now the answer is I don't care who you are in this world right is right and wrong is wrong except it let me get a cheat for you what is that teach our children I can't teach my kid. That kind of crap

[Adam1978]

No and if I am wrong we wouldn't have a dispute. So this is most likely a opinion based situation and you can't claim your wrong in those. So obviously I think I am right, your task would then be prove me wrong with arguments I agree with or agree to disagree.

[Magnum615]

Not at all, if I'm in the wrong, or they don't agree with my opinion I'm happy to die on that hill on my own.

If I was only messing then I'd hope my partner would join in the fun.

[Shark_61695]

Nope, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong and would rather know what is right.

If it is a purely philosophical matter, I would hope they can back up their own views and express themselves as appropriate for the forum.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't expect anyone to back me up if i was wrong, cause i'm a man who always gives the right to the person who have the right, each person should be given his/her rights of they are the ones who are oppressed...

[Agape93]

No, I'd expect them to correct me. To me that's more loyal than letting me make a fool of myself

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Yeah, tell a woman that she's wrong, that always goes over well. That's hilarious

[Desconhecida]

Hahahah you're hilarious!🤣

[ArrowheadSW]

If I were dating, I would not expect her to back me if I were in the wrong.

[Subarugirl]

Absolutely not, if I am wrong I would like my partner to tell me so in an appropriate way and setting

[motownplayer2000]

Nah. I want her to correct me. It may hurt but in the long run if I’m wrong, I’m wrong. I expect her to keep that same energy if I was fighting with her

[Shaggy_KW]

Nope we have a very honest sense of humor and she'll call me a dumbass and I'll know she's right

[jobego]

no i want them to be honest to me too but help deescalate the situation instead of also yelling back

[Anonymous]

I don’t know I think I’d probably want him to be silent in the situation and then later on have him let me know if I was wrong or not to determine if I have to apologize or not lol.

[douride2]

If I am wrong? Not a chance he will back me & I don't expect him to.

[male_guy_the_dude]

Always, even of she says 1 1 = 3. I'll talk some absolute BS in favour of her argument.. I'll correct her in private 😌

[Medhat-M]

No more like not being too harsh while correcting me lol

[loveslongnails]

No, I expect my partner to know how to get me to back down and reconsider.

[AndrésC64]

No. I had this problem with my ex. I'm not going to follow something that I don't believe is right.

[Caunsos]

Nope i expect them to call me an idiot and to tell me to shut up.