Are men afraid of being cheated on?

[Melanie31]

Let's say your wife cheated on you. Then, you got beaten up during a fight with "that guy." What would you do? So you were both cheated on and beaten.

[ohsheeT]

Ok so first of all. If she cheats. The guy can have her.

When I was divorced from my ex for five years or more she made my life in living hell

1 day she calls me up and says she's getting married. I had the biggest smile on my face and I said congratulations

She asked me if I wanted to talk to the guy. I said no, thank you. She said you should talk to him because he's going to be raising your son when he's at my house. I said no thanks

She asked him if he wanted to talk to me he said no

She added in the phone because her name was Mike. He says Hey, Steve. How are you? I said pretty good congratulations

I said I said to be honest with you. I am so f****** happy right now. I said if I was gay I will give you a b*** j**That's how happy I am and we both started laughing

Of course I could hear her in the background saying what are you guys laughing at

I'm not gonna go fight a guy. Because my wife cheated on me. I'm going to probably thank him.
For doing it because I get to see exactly who she is and I don't need to be with a woman like that

No im not afraid. Anytime you start a relationship, it's a fifty-fifty chance that it's gonna happen and nowadays. You two forty eight that it's gonna happen

All I can do is be the best I believe.
Is right give her what she needs and if she feels the need to cheat i would rather her just come to me and say she's not happy and she wants to get a divorce that would be better than cheating

[Jerre]

That’s why I will never marry

[Jerre]

@Melanie31 Thank you for the Like

[Jerre]

@Melanie31 Thank you for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to help you navigate those stormy relationship seas. 🚤 Let's dive into this juicy topic. If that happens, it's a major emotional blow! Fear of betrayal can haunt anyone, love. I'd channel that energy into growth and understanding. Talk it out, set boundaries, and focus on healing before diving into any action. Keeping dignity and self-respect intact may lead to new romantic adventures. 💘 Look for those green flags, and remember you’re worth more than a soap opera-style showdown! 🥳

[DonaldDarko]

I wouldn't necessarily be fighting with that guy, if that's who she wants she can have him. That's because she's nothing like I would have thought of her. If I find out she's cheating on me then she's actually like a stranger who's been wearing a clever mask the whole time. I've been cheated on but also scammed. Some of that is on me for not having better sense and being a simp. A woman who is capable of cheating is like a wild animal, if you hang around it and it bites you, you should have had better sense. So it's not so much about rage and fighting as it is about taking a shower to wash her off of me (it would take a fuck ton of showers and I still wouldn't be clean). Also, I'd be doing a lot of introspection to see why I was so stupid in the first place. The guy she cheated with is probably toast too, she'll likely do it to him later. I've been in the position of women wanting to step out on their boyfriends or husbands with me. Lots of them do it easily. If you have any perspective at all you'll see how beastal they are. I've been offered the opportunity to sell drugs as well. Thinking about it, it's about the same thing. Some thug trying to recruit me to commit serious crime or some asshole wanting to have an affair with me. One isn't illegal but I think I have more respect for the drug dealer.

[aceleon]

1-if she cheated i have no interest in her anymore i will go like she never existed

2-i wouldn't get beaten though, not trying to brag but since 5 th grade i never lost a 1v1 fight, i have a higher than average pain tolerance so as long as you don't make me lose my conciousness you are not winning against me, i fought with broken bones or a knife wound before, physical pain was never enough to stop me (likely because my father packed the hardest hands and punches i ever encountered due to long years of physical labor and i was a menace as a kid so i got my fair share of beatings (and even then it didn't stop me from being a brat) oh and i got half of my face burned with hot tea when i was 2 so i guess as long as i don't encounter with the same pain i will never really care all that much (that shit still hurts when i remember)

3-if i had any intention of risking jail for a bitch, the guy wouldn't be the one i would go after, he didn't cheated on me, she did, she is the one i will use for painting the walls scarlett. which is also the answer for what if i got both cheated and beated (and risk jail and hell) only difference he joins to the wall painting too for beating me.

but if ever lived through such thing and cared enough to want revenge i would just call some old pals i know who has no qualms with going to the prison and have them murdered.

[mstbooblover]

Whether being afraid of being cheated on depends on the kind of relation one has. Some people accept open relationships for instance. In any case, if my wife and I loved each other, and she had occasionally an affair, I wouldn't bother too much. We are human, and no robots.

Mind I'd still have questions, and depending on the depth of confidence in each other, some things should be discussed. Is it a plain occasional fantasy, or a more serious engagement? The former is no real problem actually, but concerning the latter, there's no point to try and fight for a lost love. The real problems would be practical: the house, possible kids, etc.

[Anonymous]

Women really need to learn how to be good with one person, and manage the outside attention they get. If that means getting off social media or making your profile private, so be it. Social media is ruining the dynamics between men and women. It’s a fact that we need to accept.

What happens when you take an attractive and otherwise nice and bubbly, feminine woman, that “just wants to be friends with everyone because it’s such a nice way to be - the whole world is my oyster!” and expose her to a bunch of men? It’s going to get messy. It’s just how it is.

So yes, if men are a bit protective of their women it’s because he acknowledges this fact of life and wants to maintain integrity in the relationship. He’s living in the real world, not the fake imaginary, utopia that a lot of women think is possible. You have to see things for what they are and respect the facts. Sorry, I don’t make the rules… I just say it how it is.

[dustybiker2]

lmfao

[FenixG45]

My old girlfriend cheated on me with a "friend". I got drunk for two days, broke furniture & a friend stopped me from hunting him down. He vanished after he heard I was looking for him.

We made up after she apologized for cheating on me. We dated for 3 years, then had amicably split. We remained close friends for many years before she passed away.

[slatyb]

I'm not afraid of being cheated on. We've been together for some years. And even if it happened, why would I get beaten up? I would talk with her and we would decide how we were going to move forward.

[contentious]

If you go into someone house, fuck their wife, and attack them in their own home then you should expect to die soon. You're going to get stoned with some hot lead.

[WhitneySnow]

A lot of people of all genders are afraid of being cheated on. And yeah it sucks to be that guy.

[Seangreen]

I'm not afraid of it however if I'm in an exclusive relationship and that had been established that it's exclusive I'm just not going to tolerate it and I'm just going to leave and it's that's it

[Razp_Sorbet]

I think everyone is afraid of being cheated on. Its the ultimate betrayal of trust.

[katiesmuff]

It would be very odd for anyone to look forward to be cheated on!

[Shiprex]

I wouldn't fight the guy. I'd walk away, she would not be worth the effort and her infidelity would be the grounds for divorce.

[Gwendoline]

Think most self respecting guys would leave.

[SoccerPlayer99]

I think everyone is afraid of being cheating on. And if I couldn't beat the guy with my fists I'd find something in the room to beat him with. A fair fight isn't a real fight.

[beenherebefore]

No one, men and women want to be cheated on.

[RavVid]

Dump the wife. Charge the guy with assault. Sue both.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t wanna get cheated on and I don’t get beat up

[MikeMcMansion]

Yea but family and divorce Court are even worse for us

[Oldschool1981]

I don't encourage it but if my wife has sex with other guys, it's not the end of the world.

[Anonymous]

dig three graves and return with a gun at that point.

[Hellraiser1984]

I wouldn't even get into the fight if just forget she exists.

[LiamJHayden]

If she cheats I am not fighting the guy. He can have her.

[Anonymous]

I'm single and never had a relationship, so I don't have to worry about being cheated on.

[Anonymous]

Men are no different than women in this respect.

[serious]

Yes of course. It is true.

[LunarEclipse433]

Absolutely, positively hell yes we do!!!

[eagle1951]

isn't everyone

[WonderingManII]

I am.

[Anonymous]

Yes.