Are you afraid of being cheated on?

Question

We all know we can get cheated on, it's not something we can't control, and it's kinda scary to know that your partner, the person you love, is cheating on you.
Some of us are completely sure that our partner is never gonna cheat, while others are scared that their partner is gonna cheat on them.

So are you afraid that your partner, or your future partner, is gonna cheat on you? And I mean be really worried and concerned about it, not just the typical doubt that comes to your mind once in a while.

I'm single, but I'm afraid to get in a relationship and she will cheat on me. I want a relationship, but with all the cheating stories you here every day, I'm pretty scared that I'm gonna give my life to one person and she's gonna turn out to be a cheater, and end up hurting me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've been cheated on.

The only one who didn't would have - she just didn't get the chance. She had a wandering eye, too, even while we only dated for a short month or so.

I've also had friends who were cheated on, including the girl above who was cheated on by a so called friend.

I've had "friends" admit to cheating on people, then a week later deny, Then going back to admitting to cheating.

I've also had a lot of friends commonly stab me in the back. Not all, but too many to not be wary of friendships.

I'll probably have to travel a lot for work. I've seen what a lot of girls do when they're in relationships, and I would call it cheating; especially when they're in LDR's.

Path1993 · Accepted Answer

Negative.

Its not something you can worry about man. And to be honest i feel cheating happens when the relationship is falling anyway. If you and your partner are in love or are truly happy with each other then it won't happen. Simple.

The more you stress or worry about things that are out of your control, the more you will obsess and end up driving ur partner too cheat because you will become possessive and so afraid that she will, you'll do everything to prevent it. But ultimately its the first step for being cheated on.

Good luck brah

BumbleDeev · Accepted Answer

I feel that if you don't trust your SO then you shouldn't really be in a relationship with them. Relationships shouldn't be all worrying about what they're doing when you're not around. I think in a healthy relationship you should trust your partner 100%

Sara413 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I don't have even the slightest concern that my bf will cheat on me. I just don't think he has it in him to do that. He's hands down the most respectful, kind guy I have ever dated. It would be completely out of character for him.

-Zoe- · Accepted Answer

I'm not afraid.. I just cannot tolerate cheater..
if I give my life to someone and he turned out to be cheater, i think it would really hurt me but I will survive and that makes me more stronger and wiser..

Genie23 · Answer

I would br lying if I said no..

phanindra554 · Answer

I am single and I am not scared because if they cheat may I will feel for some days but they will be reputed as bad person for whole life so I am worrying about them poor people how they lead there stupid life.
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hypno-trip · Answer

I think I'll look for a girl where I don't see this being a big possibility, meaning I trust her character. I wouldn't be attracted to someone so unfaithful anyway probably...

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Blondiee2014 · Answer

I'm kinda seeing someone I guess.
I dont actually know what we are in terms of status or what she would like us to be if I'm honest, but we had a talk last night about out insecurity around this type of thing and We both set ground rules and boundaries.
Because of that I think we have full trust of each other :)

AdamThomas · Answer

I don't think my girlfriend would cheat, she's not that type. She doesn't trust most men especially when she's out drinking so she just ends up telling them to fuck off if they try hitting on her (even when she was single). It's a fear of mine as I've been cheated on before but I don't think she would so I'm not paranoid.

trieze · Answer

Heh heh, I wouldn't be scared at all. Best you cheat now and get out my life so I can save my time and go after the next one.

zombiebabe · Answer

i had already been cheated on... thanks to my fucking ex... he is the main reason why i have trust issues!

PrincessJennyfer · Answer

im not scared my bf will cheat on me because he doesn't have the ability to flirt with a rock XD

Anonymous · Answer

I've been afraid of getting hurt in the past, but not any more. I've never been afraid of being cheated on though, just that he'll stop loving me or fall in love with someone else

Hans222 · Answer

Voted A... I really hope that when I meet someone she won't cheat on me. Although I think that if she confessed and could leave it behind her, I'd recover and give her a second chance. Conditionally of course.

SexyTexas · Answer

I do fear being cheated on (because I'm not naive, it happens), but it does not control my dating life. If it happens I will deal with it then, dwelling on the possibility can ruin a relationship.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Sadly bro, i voted A) its hard to get over being cheated on bro now i am more nervous to start dating a girl long term

KDA20 · Answer

I think it is a legitimate fear most people have once it doesn't develop into paranoia and excessive jealousy.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Being cheated on is a big fear of mine. However, I'm not afraid that my boyfriend will cheat on me.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

I highly highly doubt he'd ever do that. He'd just leave me first if that's the case.

bubble_tea · Answer

I used to be really scared of being cheated on, now I'm not anymore.

Kshppatel · Answer

It's happened to me before so of course I'm cautious in who I let into my life. I've become a lot more judgmental because of it.

nicholle35 · Answer

Being cheated on is my number one fear while being in a relationship.

dangimconfused · Answer

Yes I trust him, but it's still in the back of my head.

Chick180 · Answer

Yes. It's one thing I wouldn't be able to deal with emotionally.

meatballs21 · Answer

For a while I wondered if my now-ex was, but I was never 'scared'.

Anonymous · Answer

I get scared that I would cheat on someone that I really care about. It'd be like throwing away a diamond for fools gold but sexual desire makes you forget about a lot of things that are good for you.

muspelhem_5 · Answer

I helped a girl cheat on her guy, so I sort of feel like I have it coming :)

been_waiting · Answer

I'm single and I think about this a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

nah you might as well expect it's gonna happen. No point in worrying

Anonymous · Answer

yes if I was in a relationship that would be my biggest fear to be cheated on. i have never cheated, never will, im hoping I can find that special woman someday.

tenofthepeaks · Answer

we cannot control others... which is why monogamy is silly..

Mikaychay95 · Answer

yes it's a huge fear of mine

JennieF · Answer

No, I'm not scared.

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