Do you fear being cheated on? especially in today’s world when it’s so easy?

[pethouse]

[Anonymous]

I've been cheated on many times, nothing physical as far as I'm aware of. He used to flirt with girls online, send nudes, sext etc.

I stupidly forgave him. He hasn't done anything like that since, but my trust is broken, and my self-esteem is gone. I used to go through his phone. All I saw was porn but no girls. It got so bad that he had to lock me out.

To get 'revenge' on him I sent nudes, seated, flirted etc. This didn't work, and it has made my self-esteem worse. I got hacked, and someone stole all my pictures. I told my boyfriend and he said it was okay. He saved some pictures of me.

I was looking for the attention I wasn't getting from him. I have no confidence, no trust, and very bad mental health. It is very hard, but I can't leave as I love him and would fall apart without him.

I've come to the conclusion that we both verbally and emotionally abuse each other. Who care about each other, but have gone through too much.

I'm in therapy and on anti depression medicine. I'm trying very hard to get my head back on and get my confidence back.

[Opinion Owner]

Sexted ^

[mandyfire98]

Not at all. Choose partners that are good people. People don't just randomly cheat out of nowhere. People who cheat have low moral fiber. It's not like cheating is the only area they will be immoral.

Not many people get cheated on and then say "I just never expected, them of all people, to do that." Normally after it happens most people will realize there were other signs.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe in some way the thought of the possibilities does effect my motivation but overall I know the woman I marry will show the best signs of a loyal woman along with the rest of the signs of a good quality woman.

I can only hope and wish the woman I run into that I see valid for a wife is within the best quality.

[OlderAndWiser]

People who want to cheat will find a way to cheat. People who want to be faithful always find a way to be faithful.

Nothing has changed.

[aceleon]

i did, immensely.

now i don't even think relationships are something humans should enter in the first place.

[sheikalana]

Of course. Although I trust me husband and I don't see him doing it there's always the possibility that it can happen.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

No because I am gay. It is pretty much the norm in gay dating to get cheated on...😔😔😔

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, but it is not to the point that I am paranoid over it.

[Kelly6]

not at all for me.

as i'm in open marriage

[pethouse]

What? Why?

[Fireguy17]

I have been in the past and it was easy for them way back when.
Nothing has really changed.

[Anonymous]

No. Because I'm single. You can't be cheated on when you're single.🤣

[Nikki1989]

There is nothing to fear.

[slatyb]

No, I don't. Never have.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I think most people do

[Twalli]

No, because she's not like that

[Altheavas]

Yeah I do...

[LazerBean]

Nope

[KatherineJ]

No, I don’t.