Married/taken men, when did you knew you wanna marry your woman?

[bobalife]

[DJB72]

We met online and chatted on the phone for a few months before we met in person. I proposed the day we met in person. We were married over 21 years. She passed away 11 months ago.

[bobalife]

Thank you for sharing such an incredible love story. But I’m really sorry to hear about your recent loss..

[DJB72]

Thanks

[Ironic_Method]

2 weeks after we met. We waited 2years, but I was convinced and we didn't want other people to think we are as impulsive as we were.

[bobalife]

I totally feel that.. did she also felt the same way after 2 weeks?

[Ironic_Method]

Lol, fortunately yes. Both staying up too late texting back and forth since we were on opposite sides of the country. 3 months later she visited and we've been stricken ever since.

[bobalife]

Aw that’s wonderful, I love that 🥰 I’m really happy for you that you found the one.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the moment of truth! For many married or taken guys, it's often a mixture of heart-fluttering love and gut-level certainty that tells them she's the one. It might hit them during an ordinary day—perhaps while she's laughing at a silly joke, or maybe while she's tucking into some comfort food. For others, it's discovered during challenging times, where her support becomes a lighthouse in a storm. Love can be like that tricky little game where emotions sneak up, and BAM, you're envisioning a life together filled with adorable chaos and loving moments! 💑💥

[AviatorTom]

We took a trip to NYC together in December. We went to Rockefeller Center and what hed the skaters next to the huge Christmas tree. I took her hand and knew that I wanted more than just a date with her, I wanted to marry her. I did propose several days later.

[bobalife]

Awww how sweet 🥰🥰🥰

[Finchie40]

When I realized I couldn’t go a day without seeing her or talking to her , but eventually that changed after years of marriage , now I can’t stand her she become my ex lol

[bobalife]

I’m sorry what changed…

[Finchie40]

She became very selfish and started pulling a lot of shady shit , pretty much trying to write Sucker on my head without me realizing she was , little did she realize , I am a great observer , She became friends’ with a toxic girl and that’s when I knew she was up to something, but I played it like I didn’t have a clue , I then realized I no longer wanted to be with a girl that wanted to live separate lives , like what is even the point of being with someone if they no longer wanted to do things together with you. She never did this before with her other friends’ so all I saw was red flags big time , so I threw I. The towel and told her it’s over. I want a girl that wants to be my partner , not a user

[bobalife]

I’m sorry, that’s awful to hear… It sounds like maybe she was influenced by bad peers & she changed. I don't know the details but you both deserve love and happiness. I hope you find healing and eventually meet someone who is able to hold the same values as you in partnership :)

[Finchie40]

Thank you , I know she is out there , I am just trying to play my cards right this time around

[Nice222]

I actually heard my wife’s voice over the intercom at work long before I met her. I asked my coworker who she was and he laughed at me and asked why. My answer was “ because I will marry her one day “.
I kept my promise. That was almost 30 years ago now and we are still happily married.

[Anonymous]

I'm not married, but if I had the chance, I would know if she is the right girl for me.

[bobalife]

😊 I guess it’s the when you know you just know haha

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly ;)

[bobalife]

Have you found her? :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but she hasn't found me yet :P

[bobalife]

Aws, I hope she does :) Goodluck sir anonymous!

[Opinion Owner]

I hope so too, thanks for the support :D

[bobalife]

You’re welcome, best wishes 😊 if it goes well, keep me updated.

[Opinion Owner]

I will ;)

[FunkyMonkee]

A few weeks after we met.

[bobalife]

Aws that’s incredible 🥰

[FunkyMonkee]

So is she.

[bobalife]

😭😭😭❤️ aww so cute…

[FunkyMonkee]

Thank you!!