MMust a girl fullfil all of your points in order to be considered dateable?

[Heaven999]

Y

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

Not all but most , you should never be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t really see eye to eye with you on a lot of things , if you do, the chances of that relationship surviving becomes very slim , because eventually the both of you will realize you don’t have much in common with each other and eventually start resenting each other because the both of you will eventually want different things. This is one thing I learned through the years in my past relationships, All the girls’ I been with that I didn’t have much in common with , all ended eventually but the girls’ I did have a lot in common with , lasted the longest . Because she shared a lot of the same interest and thought pretty much the same way I did. Why I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl until her and I really get to know each other and see how long our chemistry and connection with each other will last. Most people are just infatuated with someone new but they really don’t know too much about each other , they overlook important things because they are infatuated with each other , So I usually suggest being FWB’s with some strings attached to give her and I more time to really get to know each other before making the big decision to be committed 100 percent to each other , unfortunately most people don’t really know what they want , they assume they do but they don’t. So it’s best get to see the big picture before assuming you are a match made in heaven

[Nikki1989]

There are always those points, but those points are subject to change.