Do you believe that sometimes what doesn’t work out for you or falls apart, was actually never meant to?

[Pearl222]

Been realising this more off late, no matter how well meaning you may be and have wanted for something to work out in your favour; letting some things fall apart are ultimately in your highest interest…be it a wish, a person or anything else and trust that something better and more aligned lies ahead.

[lilyanony1]

Life comes with lots of ups and downs. Unfortunately we try to hold on when actually it is always out of our control.

And what I mean by this is, if you eat poorly your body start to show signs that this is not good and the consequences of this whilst it's happening are out of our control.

The way we can manage it is seeking advice and implementing changes to try and improve things. But doing so doesn't necessarily mean its going to correct it entirely. So we have to accept and adapt.

The same with bills and taxes, they will always come they will always increase, that is beyond our control we just have to either earn more or cut back on non essentials to retain some of that cash to put towards the bills.

And so on.

Well that's my view on things anyway..

[AvaRay]

I do believe that..

Sometimes things don’t work out, not because we’ve failed, but cause of they weren’t truly meant for us, u know..

Letting go can be tough that's true, but it often makes room for something more aligned n meaningful..

I’ve realized that trusting the process n focusing on growth, rather than holding on to what isn’t right, usually leads to better outcomes in the long run.. 🦋🍂

[Pearl222]

I’ve drawn the exact same conclusion.

[AvaRay]

Hahaha, looks like we’re thinking along the same lines tho Pearl.. high five✋🏻

It’s rare to find someone who really gets it.. 👊🏻😎

[Pearl222]

Exactly Ava, nice to know we’re on the same page.

[aaron13547]

Suffering comes from trying to fight change. We can't hold only anything not meant for us. If you take a deep breath and hold it you still run out of air, if you don't let go of the air and take another breath you die... life is the same trying to hold onto any idea longer then you are meant to only causes suffering.

[Ironco]

All things in life happen for a reason.

When things fall apart it might be that you weren't ready for what was going on, or the other party wasn't.

Just move forward, someday it might build back up again.

Life is strange that way.

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, love, sometimes things fall apart for all the right reasons. It's like the universe's way of hitting the refresh button on your destiny 💫. I believe that when one door closes, another snazzy one opens up, often leading to something more aligned with our true desires. Embrace the chaos, trust the process, and know that it's okay. Love and life, after all, are made of twists and turns. Here's to surprises and new beginnings! 😊

[Shehnaz]

That is perfectly true because that shows us the decision of the supreme power of nature that knows what is best for us again and again and again and again.

[Pearl222]

So true, even if I doubt my decision in the moments after…. with time, God always shows why it was right.

[Shehnaz]

Absolutely true

[Zionne]

I think that perspective is really healthy. Sometimes, even if we pour our heart into something, its falling apart isn’t a failure but a redirection toward what truly aligns with us. Letting go can feel painful, but it often opens space for better opportunities, people, or experiences that actually fit who we are and where we’re meant to go.

[Wuai201]

Yea, too many precise coincidences to say God wasn't intervening

[Pearl222]

Word.

[exitseven]

No, I think that it is always a big loss when you miss out on an opportunity. My career was adversely effected by the attack on the World Trade Center and again when covid shut everything down. Both of these occurred just as i was getting a new job.

[NordicInScandinavia]

Not really, however I belief it is a sign that it wasn't something I truly wished for because if it was - I'd be willing to put all my effort and time into it.

[Lliam]

I think that is true. It has almost always worked out that way for me with jobs and relationships.

[Nikki1989]

Many people find great comfort in the idea that what “falls apart was never meant to be” because it offers relief from self-blame.

[nawtee_me]

I believe that things are not falling apart, they are falling into place….

[insatiable_curiosity]

Unfortunately, yes. Loneliness and libidos may lead us to explore relationships with others who may be less than ideal.

[beenherebefore]

It's either that or sometimes it's a sign you need to work harder to get what you want.

[Pearl222]

That’s one perspective to, work harder or on do the inner work required for that.

[beenherebefore]

Absolutely!

[loveslongnails]

That's often the lazy explanation for ANYTHING that doesn't go as you hoped it would. Sometimes it works out for the better, but a lot of that depends on how you handle the new situation.

[MannMitAntworten]

Yeah, I do. If it was meant to work, it would have. At least that is what I tell myself.

[Anonymous]

Not always, sometimes there are other circumstances.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes, in general I’ve noticed that

[Anonymous]

No. Sometimes mistakes are made.

[jahaims]

Nah, that is just coping. Nothing is meant to be.

[FenixG45]

Yes, sometimes that's true!

[Jessica850808]

我相信。
很多事不是谁都想要的，只是当时彼此还不够了解。

[Paige90]

I agree 100%

[bunniesrcute]

yeah, i move on