How can I be mor attractive to my spouse?

[Anonymous]

I’ve started losing weight I’m a big guy close to 100lbs gone I’m wearing better clothes cologne working on my self but I still can’t figure it out I’m lost y'all I’m not moving on so please 🙏 any help I give affirmations but nothing she won’t even say I love you she does rely on me for a lot and I see her noticing but she doesn’t fully

[AviatorTom]

You say she is also a large woman. Maybe she thinks your losing weight is you expecting her to lose weight too. Make sure she knows you love her as she is. Give her flowers and praise.

[Asker]

She’s not large I was just saying her shirt size she knows how much I love her I tell her every day but not overwhelming I try to give her flowers but she says don’t waste your money I praise her all the time too

[AviatorTom]

Most women say don't waste your money on flowers but they enjoy getting them anyway.

[Asker]

I figured but after the second time she just let them die and she legitimately upset for me trying

[dwreborn]

I would let her go if she really loves you move on and see if she comes for you I am recently separated after 25years said she lost feelings for me it was heartbreaking so I started moving shit out and 2nd night gone at night she said she still hasn't giving up on us so do what you must but if she is sick of you let her go its only way

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you attract that spark back! You've made amazing progress, and that's a big deal. Keep rocking those stylish clothes and irresistible cologne. However, it's time to work on emotional intimacy. Plan a playful surprise date, cook her favorite meal, or pen a heartfelt note. Creating those sparks and excitement might nudge her into saying those magical words. Keep the fun alive! 😉✨

[Anonymous]

How do u both look? Describe in detail

[Asker]

? She is 28 5”2 XL size beautiful Puerto Rican brown hair glasses beautiful brown eyes
I’m 31 6”2 bigger guy from Texas, Caucasian I don't know lol I’m not like obese I heavy but have a little muscle tone and flatter stomach

[Opinion Owner]

She’s xl herself so why bother.

[Asker]

Wtf? Because I guess when you connect with someone on a higher level you see more than size she’s absolutely gorgeous why the hate?

[Opinion Owner]

Then why do u wanna lose weight

[Opinion Owner]

How does her hair look?

[Asker]

Dark Brown straight with bangs with a little curl on the end

[Opinion Owner]

Why do u love her

[Opinion Owner]

How long is her hair

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh. What colour glasses does she wear? What’s her face and eye shape

[Tangxiaoxue]

Know how to show yourself