Why do most men like girlfriends being jealous while women find it so repulsive when their boyfriends are?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

Usually feminist women don't like jealousy. Many feminists want the perks and title of "GIRLFRIEND" or "WIFE" but they don't want any of the obligations or duties.

They want to still have total freedom to do whatever the hell they want at any time. If they want to go out dressed like a tramp, half naked, that isn't her being a bad boundary, disrespectful girlfriend, that is him being "controlling". If she wants to hang out with lots of guy friends alone, that isn't her having bad boundaries, it is him being "insecure". If she wants to go out with her trashy, low character friends to the clubs all the time alone, drinking until 2am, doing who knows what with guys around her all night, that isn't her being a bad girlfriend, it is him being controlling and possessive.

Feminists just want the perks of being in a relationship but to still act like wild, single college girls.

Are there controlling guys? Sure. But, there are two sides to this issue. Lots of low quality, trashy, disrespectful, GFs that should really just stay single because they don't know how to or want to be real, committed, loyal, RESPECTFUL GFs.

Usually this type are always rabid feminists.

[Finchie40]

I don’t mind if she is a little jealous , that shows she loves me and doesn’t want to lose me , but if she is overly jealous and not trusting of me, then that relationship would more than likely end because I wouldn’t tolerate that behavior for long, Most girls’ don’t like jealous men because most girls’ like being with a man that she can feel safe and secure with , that she looks up to , if her man is jealous or possessive of her on a steady basis , she will more than likely dump his ass for being that way So o think it goes both ways

[thestyx]

Is that so? It depends on their personality i think

[AI Opinion]

Ah, my goal here is to sprinkle some wisdom mixed with a bit of fun into the relationship world. Jealousy can be seen as a sign of interest and affection, but balance is key! Many guys might enjoy a hint of jealousy from their girlfriends because it's like getting a little lovebomb. It's playful and shows she cares. On the flip side, overly jealous guys can be a red flag, making women feel cornered or controlled. So remember, a pinch of jealousy can spice things up, but too much might cause a fire! 🔥😄

[aceleon]

girls being jealous of us validates us in a manly way since males are the unwanted gender it makes you feel wanted.

with woman they are too insecure about their authonomy so everything a man say or does comes as controlling to them nowadays.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, but if I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't want her to be jealous, and she wouldn't have the reason for it, cause I would never cheat on her.

[Abbycado]

They want reassurance

[BarryLiverstone]

We dong like jealous gfs