Have you ever had a person that was already in a relationship or married show a little too much interest in you?

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Jersey2 · Accepted Answer

A solid yes. Not from Day 1 though. My Best Man’s wife took off her shirt off and bra while we were over for a dinner. I was married too. My friend got mad at me for seeing her tits which I didn’t as I averted my eyes. I don’t know why she did it honestly.

A married Admin at my office kept telling people she wanted to have my baby and more. They fired her without my knowledge. I also unknowingly flirted with her, not seriously, online (what are the f’ing odds of that! F me right! I did use my first and middle initial and city though as the ID). She figured it out but I denied it. The women at work were pretty upset by her as they really liked my wife.

One unmarried woman was on the phone at the office talking about me. I heard her tell her friend “I said he was married, not dead”. She would also tell me how she wished she could go everywhere in a Bimini because she looks so good in one.

The another neighbor kept telling me she was going to ask my wife to borrow me (I think she was meaning she wanted a baby). Crazy. Anyway, I am sure there are other stories but enough said.

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

Yeah , it’s been a theme in places I've worked being honest. It’s like many don’t understand professional distance or what over familiarity is , or even personal space or that it’s not acceptable to use your sexuality or gender to get what you want or to entrap you.
I honestly pity the husbands / partners of those women. It would be unfair to suggest that they all wanted to take it further but I never wanted to find out , not because they weren’t attractive or appealing but because I was / am in a relationship and it’s neither appropriate or what I’d want for me or my partner.

Unap0logetic_ · Accepted Answer

Yes, I have experienced this and I was sad and embarrassed for the wife. It was a very weird situation because I had been told previously by old coworkers that this person’s wife was a lesbian. So their relationship didn’t make sense. I honestly believe she married him because she wanted financial security and he wanted the attention and to not be alone. I could be wrong obviously, but that’s just what it looks like to me from the outside.

Pearl222 · Accepted Answer

Yes, didn’t even know he was married at first…. but I shut it down as soon as I found out. Still don’t know why people do that. I get that there are unhappy marriages, but cheating ( including emotional) is never an option.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here on Girls Ask Guys to spice up your love life! 🍀 Oh, the drama of human attraction! It happens sometimes, doesn’t it? Someone in a relationship might send flirty vibes your way, and it can feel like you’re caught in a rom-com plot twist. 🚥 This can be a classic red flag waving "stay cautious"! It’s important to keep those boundaries clear and remember that respecting relationships is key. Stay cool, my friend, and focus on finding someone who’s 100% available for all your amazing qualities! 😉💖

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Yes, but i didn’t know she was married until we already had our own arrangement. Once i found out, i cut her off. She persuaded me to not tell her husband by suggesting he might k*ll himself if he found out. Which made everything so much worse. She knows it will literally k*ll him but cheats anyway. What a POS.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, it was a nurse with whom I worked. After work, several of us would go to a restaurant lounge for a drink after work. One night, everyone else left and it was just her and me. She asked me to take her back to my apartment for a romp between the sheets. I have always treated people in committed relationships as "off limits" and I also knew her husband (who was a decent guy.) I told her to go home and work on her marriage

AviatorTom · Answer

Yes, I had a female boss once who let me know, subtly, that if ever I was interested, she might be willing.
Since I was married, and so was she, I never did anything about it... except in fantasy. 🙊🙉🙈😏

HawkPerception · Answer

Nope. Not that attractive of a dude to attract girls, especially married ones.

HighValue · Answer

Yes. The last time was a married woman that was a paraeducator in the district where I worked back when I was a school bus driver. She even followed me to my last drop off site in the morning and to where I was parked before a field trip. Also came to the bus depot to give me stuff and hit on me more in front of half the people I worked with. She was married to a guy that even used his lunch breaks sometimes to bring her a snack or drink at her work and she had a kid with him. She even told me in front of two co-workers that she wanted to be with me and when I told her that she was married and had a kid, she said her husband could become the pool boy and we could live in the house. Even two of the drivers I worked with were scumbags and tried to encourage me to go for it.

Of course I stayed away from her after because I don't want anything to do with immoral/disloyal people like that. That was the last person that did that so blatantly.

Anonymous · Answer

Quite a few times. Husband i babysat for.

Last one was a neighbour that wanted to come in and use my bathroom and tried to push his way in when I said no and was insulting. Luckily the bar was on the door. Id caught him looking at me a few times. He didn't realise my husband was at home. My husband had walked out the back door real quick and met him at the front door and gave him a beating while he tried to run.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

As I'm walking along, yes it's like women eyeball me 👀👀👁️👁️ and I mean eyeball  They're not thinking I'm ugly.  Even when they're with their man - and ofc their man is oblivious

OneViewpoint · Answer

Yup happens to me pretty regularly with married women. It no longer surprises me. There are a LOT of women in unhappy marriages.

warlock83 · Answer

Worked with a woman in a big company (she was a Barista there). She had a boyfriend at the time and was sending so many hints that she wanted to f*ck. I was not the only etch on her walking stick. According to her she f*cked part of the company. If she were single and wanted me, sure- I would. But, her being in a relationship? Nope.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, it constantly happens. Married men are the worst.

NordicInScandinavia · Answer

Married men were fucking me as a child - so yes.

Crankor · Answer

Yes it has happened quite a few times. Made me realize how many people aren't happy in their relationship and ask why they are still even in it if they dont care to fix it

jazzy34 · Answer

BLECH, yeah. Not my style, though. I don't entertain that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes, the "I'm wed, not dead." nonsense some say.

Bloodparadise · Answer

I've been on the wrong side of marriage, trying to rectify that

Twalli · Answer

I don't go after any girl in a relationship, so I'd shut them down quickly.

robocop666 · Answer

I walk by women every day checking me out. half are married with kids.

RedWine9 · Answer

Yes year ago luckily I get to work from home. My girlfriend does a lot. She nurse at doctor office.

Finchie40 · Answer

Plenty of times lol

thegreenyogi · Answer

Yes this happens to me really often.

Abbycado · Answer

Thankfully, no.

exitseven · Answer

Have you seen me?

Alex-Snow · Answer

Yes but she was chill about it

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, never happened to me.

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