How do I get revenge on a man who cheated on me?

[Anonymous]

I'm a bit of an aggressive women when it comes to people doing wrong things, especially to me. My boyfriend cheated on my with a coworker of his, I found out when he forgot his phone at my apartment, he gave me his password before and I was curious in the moment so of course I had to go through his phone it was destined if he gave me his password.

I was going through his texts and found messages between him and another girl, talking about meeting up and flirting, and I was already packing his bags, putting them into literal trash bags and taking away the key to our house that was usually under the mat, left the trash bags outside with his phone and put a note on the door saying 'come back never'.

But in my mind, this really isn't enough, and I want him to have more Karma than just not being able to live with me. He still has his parents house (probably said I was the problem) and I desperately need to get him back again, any ideas? (That are legal and I won't get sued for :))

[Keyboardkat]

When you say you need to "get him back again," do you mean you still love him and want him "back again," or are you talking about "Getting back" in the sense of revenge? It seems a bit confusing because that expression could be understood two ways.

My advice to you is, you've thrown him out, locked him out and I don't see what more you could, or should, do. Don't make vengeance the focus and goal of your life! That will turn you into an ugly and hateful person. And it isn't necessary. He lost you, and he may be absolutely miserable right now. He is probably realizing too late that it wasn't worth it. Not ALL guys are cheaters. You found a bad apple. There are a lot of great apples out there, and you need to find the one who will love you and commit to you.

If he comes crawling to you with tears, flowers, remorse, regret, swearing to make it up to you in every way, etc., etc., then you will have to deal with what your own feelings may be at that time.

[Finchie40]

Best revenge to a cheater is act like they don’t exist to you anymore , don’t give them a second of your time , I don’t care if they call you or text you , just ignore them or hang up on them , if you see them in public , ignore them and walk the other way. When they realize you moved on without giving them a care in the world , that will eat them alive and the best revenge you can do to a cheater period. Especially to a cheater that was trying to come back to you acting like they did nothing wrong.

[bunnyboo24]

Stay far away.. cheaters just like child grapists.. are equally the same mentally. Best is if he forgets about you and you move on

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I see that's a lot of intense emotion! 🍿 Revenge might sound sweet, but it's often the stress and guilt that stick. A better "revenge" might be moving on and living fabulously. Focus on your happiness, which will be the biggest blow to his ego. Surround yourself with support, dive into self-love, and let your success do the talking. Just imagine his face when he sees you thriving—no tricks necessary, just pure, undiluted awesomeness! 🌟 Don't let him steal your sparkle, love! ✨

[slatyb]

You go on to have a happy life without him. That's what I did to my ex. Some years after our divorce, I met a woman who casually knew my ex. The woman said "You're the ex? All she talks about is you." I didn't talk about her at all, I was over it and happily seeing someone else.

[OneViewpoint]

Here's how you deal with this. Get some therapy and some nice strong meds. Move on.

I honestly can't tell if he did you a favor or you did him a favor in this story. You may be the reason he cheated on you. Self defense!

[RavVid]

I don't think you can match the hurt of betrayal.

[Anonymous]

In the end, vindictiveness will only make you feel small. Let it go and be happy. That's the best revenge.

[Anonymous]

Cheat on him with a guy who has bigger dick.

[jahaims]

It's immature. Cut contact and move on

[beefcakebradybatson]

DUMP DAT DUDE !!!

[In_Trance]

Revenge is small dick energy.

Move on