How should I get revenge on a cheating ex?

[devilman666]

My girlfriend of 4 years, FOUR FUCKING YEARS, cheated on me, I walked in on them 2 days ago and I've been trying to come up with a way to get revenge ever since. She broke my heart, it wasn't the first time either, she admitted she's been lying for the last year. I was gunna marry this girl, I gave her so much! I don't understand how she could do this to me and I want revenge, cheating is not okay and must be punished. We're still living together (in separate rooms of the house) for the moment as neither of us have anywhere to go but I am desperately trying to get out of the house.

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Take a baseball bat to her car

Post pictures of them together on facebook

Take a knife to her furniture (I paid for it but I never liked it)

Replace her shampoo with hair removal

Destroy her phone

Burn her clothes

Beat the shit out of her new man

[God_of_Thunder]

Alternately, you could just do nothing.

Seriously, six of those seven choices are either definitely, or likely, felonies. I get that being cheated on pisses you off, but I'm fairly certain that getting yourself arrested is not going to go down as the best revenge of all time.

Besides which, it'll just make her decision to cheat seem justified, because she can tell everyone you're a psycho. Just take the high road, work on getting yourself out of there, and let the slutty bitch fuck over another poor guy.

It'll catch up to her when she's 45, has six kids by six different guys, and single, because nobody wants anything to do with her.

Living well is the best revenge, after all. Have a better live than her, with someone who's not a skanky 'ho. When you're happily married 5 years down the line, and she's struggling to raise her kids alone, THEN you will have your revenge.

[devilman666]

Oh please, if the situation was reversed then she'd have keyed my car, posted pics to social media, and destroyed my phone... and she'd only spend a night in jail for it. She'll lie and seem justified either way, she already telling people I was controlling and abusive even though I wasn't. Women are lying whores and whether I act good or bad, I will be seen as the bad guy, so might as well get my revenge so I can be happy, right? I'll live well either way, but may as well rub it in so I can at least salvage some of my confidence and self respect.

[God_of_Thunder]

Sounds like you're both crazy, then.

You have fun with that. 🤷‍♂️

[NeverHadASister]

Pray to God to help you let it go and move on. There are many fish in the sea. I know that is hard to imagine right now, but there is somebody better out there who loves you and will be loyal and appreciative.

In the meantime, get some therapy and work to make yourself the best partner you can possibly be, so the next person cannot deny their unyielding devotion to you.

[Mel2021]

I wouldn’t take revenge on a cheating ex and I would say this to any man or woman that would use vengeful tactics like that as they cheapen and lower your character.
Biggest thing to do is walk away and cut all contact and find someone that won’t cheat on you and if she wants to do things like that, let her it’s not your problem anymore

[Sabretooth]

it'll backfire.

[Anonymous]

You should just accept that its over and move on.

At least you know now, thats better than knowing 5 years and 2 kids from now.

All that stuff you are thinking is not ok, it doesn't matter what she has done it doesn't make it ok for you to do anything.

Some of the things in your list could quite correctly put you in a prison which would be entirely your fault.

[exitseven]

You could beat up the guy but maybe he didn;t know about you.
Maybe just forget about it and find somebody better. Living well is always the best revenge.

[Iron_Man]

There’s nothing you can do you can’t beat her so basically the best thing to do is to kick her out of the house instantly and don’t ever her take her back. The guy is lucky that he can walk out of your house in one piece

[devilman666]

The house is in both of our names and with covid we are struggling to find separate places. Having the two of them fucking right in front of me is too much, I can't get away from it so I need to do something, even if it's stupid.

[Iron_Man]

I can’t believe The next time he comes over to your house it’s war

[Anonymous]

Ultimately revenge won't help how you feel and takes away your moral high ground.
Personally, quietly treating her as the brazen hussy she is, particularly as you still live together, would be enough entertainment for me.

[DocJones]

Get revenge by moving on and not looking back. Indifference is what you should feel towards them and that will be the best revenge you could get. Anything else just feeds their ego

[snackthatsmilesback]

Why beat the guy up? He's not the one who cheated on you.

[g0dof_GaG]

How about a combo of four of them. The ones that cause you least damage

[David_Bayer]

I would play it cool but if you need revenge then exposing them publicly is the best.

[Anonymous]

Why stoop to her level just move on and let her be.

[Gabbledegak]

Erase her from your life.

[lexiflexs]

Move on and be happy. That’s the best revenge.

[JesseJayNeak]

Pictures in FB and insta

[Sabretooth]

you don't.