I wrote about him numerous times but a good summary is in this post.
I was totally disillusioned by who I thought he was. In fact it's almost embarrassing but the guy ended up being one of the most evil people I have ever met. As I detailed in the aforementioned post; he wanks off at gore (mainly dead women but also Ukraine war footage?), he had secret Telegram accounts where he would make lists on when it's fine to hurt women or POCs, he's a habitual liar, manipulator and a cheater (no surprises there).
Initially, I helped this guy get a better job, helped him with his assignments, just overall really tried to care for him. He went out of his way to hurt me. When I found out he cheated, he asked me to go on video so he can see me cry and when I called him out for being emotionally stunted he went on a massive monologue about how "he's not like the others" and "he doesn't feel emotion". Few days after the break up, we had a phone call where he admitted to faking a personality in front of all his friends and family, he joked about the fact that if anyone really knew him they would run for the hills. He also said things like 'I hope I didn't fuck you up too bad ;)' and when I said 'you didn't fuck me up at all' he said 'hmmm I don't know I just don't think you believe in love anymore probably'.
Thing is, I recorded that conversation. I also got hold of his browsing history (gore, some stuff on racism/sexism) and I have our texts where he threatened to stalk me etc. (Although that one was very indirect by sending me certain songs).
His family and friends think he is an angel because he lies to them. But of course I have hard proof of what he is really like. And whilst I'm not the type to seek revenge, I am wondering how many more people is he going to hurt?
What should I do?
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It's important to prioritize your own safety and well-being when dealing with a psycho ex. It's understandable that you may feel hurt, angry, or betrayed by your ex's behavior, and it's important to take steps to protect yourself from any potential harm or danger.
One option may be to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, such as a therapist or counselor, who can offer guidance and support as you navigate your feelings and the situation with your ex.
It may also be helpful to consider taking legal action, such as obtaining a restraining order or filing a police report, if you feel that you are in danger or if your ex's behavior is escalating.
Remember, you deserve to be in healthy and safe relationships, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness as you navigate your interactions and relationships with others.
I don't think you want to stop dealing with him.
If you did, you'd block him and move on. You'd stop talking about him.
But you don't
He sounds like a lying narcissistic psychopath. Put as much distance as you can between you and him. He's not your circus or barrel of monkeys. LOSE HIM NOW!