Guys, Would you be upset if the mother of your child didn't want you present in the delivery room?

[Anonymous]

I always thought I will never let my boyfriend be in the room with me cause I dont want him to loose attraction to me.

No I would prefer not to be there

No it's whatever

Yes I would be upset

[Finchie40]

If he loves her like he says he does , then he won’t be losing attraction from her whatsoever, by her giving birth to their baby , if he did? then he is a guy you should of never had sex with to begin with and a guy you should really reconsider staying on a relationship with , Having each other by each others’ side during birth is a beautiful thing as well as a natural thing , I was by my wife’s’ side the whole time she was giving birth to our babies , it didn’t stop me from loving her whatsoever , the second she was healed , I started banging her again and knocked her up again lol

[Asker]

Thats interesting.. and you didn't loose attraction to her?

[Finchie40]

Not at all , her giving birth to our babies was a beautiful moment in our lives , I wasn’t t even thinking about how her vagina looked while she was pushing out our babies , I was thinking how much I loved her and how beautiful it was that we made beautiful babies together. So if your man finds that disgusting and a turn off then that’s a guy you should dump immediately , because someone that truly loves you isn’t going to get grossed out by natural things , what’s going to happen when you turn into an old lady that is wrinkly and having to wear diapers , and you shit Yourself and your man can’t help clean you and take care of you or each other. Something you should think about because that’s going to happen one day , A loving partner will take care of you the same way you take care of them , a non loving partner just likes the convenience of you but truly doesn’t love you. Something you should really think about because there might come a time when you need your partner to take care of you , instead of being grossed out by you. You should be able to fart in front of your man , or clean your period blood in front of your man , if he gets grossed out and leaves your side , then he isn’t a man , he is a wimp which will
More than likely turn you off if he is , especially if you like masculine men, I consider myself a masculine men that loves my partner the same way I want her
To love me , if she gets grossed out by natural things and I can’t rely on her
To have my back, then she isn’t the girl for me period , things like this will help you see someone’s true colors on whether they love you or not , I will always take care of a girl that I love with all my heart , no matter what gross natural things happen.

[Finchie40]

Partners that get turned off or grossed out by natural things that happen to us aren’t good partners’ whatsoever, they shouldn’t even be in a relationship with someone period if those things are going to turn them off , I knew a guy that left his loving girlfriend because she had to get her head shaved for a brain surgery that could of killed her, if she didn’t get to surgery done , Just because she had to have her head shaved , he lost attraction to her and cheated on her and dumped her over it , I lost all respect for him as a person because his girlfriend was a loving partner to him but he didn’t love her the same. When I ran into him I told him he is the biggest POS person for doing that to her , but then I said thank you for leaving her because now I am dating her and treating her the way she deserves to be treated , I told him he didn’t love her whatsoever. Because if he did he would still be by her side , but thank you because now I am dating a beautiful girl with a beautiful heart., I told her I ran into her ex and told her what I said to him , She said I’m glad I am no longer with him because now I have you , a guy that actually has a heart. So I ended up dating her and falling for her because she was a beautiful person all around , unfortunately she ended up passing away from that tumor she had in her brain that apparently came back. I was devastated losing her because she treated me like gold the same way I treated her

[BadApple69]

In the delivery room it’s not about you. It’s about the baby. The father isn’t there to see you. Ryan Reynolds said he loved his wife so much that he would take a bullet for her but as soon as he looked into his baby’s eyes he knew at that exact moment that if they were ever attacked he would use his wife as a human shield.


The love of a father to his children is Beyond compare.

[Asker]

So you would be upset if she didn't want you in the delivery room?

[BadApple69]

Yes I would be upset. I want to be there when my children are born.

[Asker]

Alright

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here on GAG, let's sprinkle some relationship sparkle 🌟! It's understandable to worry about attraction during such an intense moment. Many partners find being present only deepens their bond and respect. Communication is key—discussing your feelings can lead to a decision that respects your comfort while keeping the connection strong. Your relationship, your rules, right? 😄

[Asker]

Shut the f up

[DonaldDarko]

No, in fact men never used to be in the delivery room, they waited outside. Doctors took care of deliveries. It wasn't until dumb ass new age hippy shit got popular that men started being in the delivery room. Just dumb ass hippy shit. Should have never happened.

[Asker]

Agree!

Cause why would it help the relationship? Tbh sex is more crusial for men than women in a relationship. Hpw would a head coming out of their make it any better? He would problaby feel sick and loose attraction.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Thankfully it's not my thing anyhow.
I don't want offspring 🤭 so even if I dated or married a woman, I'm upfront from day 1, I don't want offspring and I'm not her man if she wants offspring or even offspring someday lol

[mysteriousNicholas]

So ofc I voted B

[Asker]

I see cool

[Curiousbenjamin90]

I’ve been there, she needs support of some kind. If it’s not you, you should be asking yourself why.

[Asker]

Cause i dont want him to loose attraction to me

[Curiousbenjamin90]

Not an issue, it’s the proudest and most joyous moment I’ve ever felt. When I’m intimate with my wife now I don’t think about what things looked like in that moment, there are way more important things that happened that day. It’s deeper than that.

[Asker]

I see. I can kinda understand but still it can't be pretty

[Curiousbenjamin90]

Men who say they can’t or shouldn’t be present for it are the same men who won’t get up in the middle of the night to help you feed the baby, change dirty diapers, and do whatever “embarrassing” things they have to so the baby has the best life possible with involved parents. Don’t worry about their old-school opinions, it’s 2025. Partners means partners.

[Asker]

Alright I see

[Anonymous]

I'd like to be there, but if she doesn't want me there, it's ok.

[Asker]

Dont you think you would loose attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

No, probably not.

[Asker]

Ok I see

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Depends on her reason, nevertheless I don't think a man should be in the delivery room anyways.

Come in once the child is born.