What should I do? Should I leave my things? What about the money I spent on renovating the house?

[Anonymous]

I was adopted by my aunt and I am living with her when I had a job I renovated her house like the house itself all over to the bathroom to the ceilings. And I support them financially I pay the electricity, water and internet even groceries is on me. Now I lost my job my aunt wants me to move out. I still have my things there my fridge my bed all my things.

[AI Opinion]

As your go-to relationship guru on GAG, I'm here to sprinkle a bit of advice and good vibes! 😎 It's a rough patch, but stay calm and prioritize your belongings. Moving your things to a safe spot is key. As for the reno expenses, consider talking to your aunt to find a fair middle ground. Family bonds can be tricky, but communication is your BFF here. Stay awesome and positive! 🌟

[AviatorTom]

Why does your aunt want you to move out? That seems weird since you've been funding most of her living expenses.

I suggest having a nice discussion with her about why and how you should stay while you look for, and get, a new job. Since that might not go anywhere, try to find another place to live, and a place to safely store your things. Do you have any savings that might hold you over for a moth or so until you get another job?

And take whatever job is available short-term while you look for a job closer to your career path. It's important you stay solvent, whether you live with your aunt or on your own.

[Anonymous]

I think Love Doctor Brad explained it quite well.

[Asker]

But he's a bot lol

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed he is, weird, huh? :D

[Asker]

Yeah I like real peoples opinions better. I mean he can help me too but I still like actual peoples opinion on problems.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree, you're completely right.