What are your flaws in a relationship?

Question

For me, it's impulsivity and impatience.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I overthink everything. I tend to fear failure (even though I know failure is part of the path to success and have heard it a gigillion times). I project my insecurities (because I feel behind in life, I assume people would judge me for it, which gives low confidence vibes, although I can come across as confident in times I don't project it). I isolate to process/withdraw when overwhelmed (It can come across as cold sometimes even if it's not my intention). I can be too critical or both myself and my partner. I don't protect my boundaries as much as I should (it's hard for me to say no to others, which can lead to quiet resentment over time). And I tend to focus too much on what's missing, rather than what I have.

Still-alive · Accepted Answer

I tend to fall in the anxious attachment style at times. it particularly peaks if there's clearly an issue and they aren't talking to me about it. This is why communication is at the top of my list for me. you got an issue lets talk it out. if you need a moment to think take a moment. but don't shut me out. to me thats worse than them saying bad stuff to me.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach here to make love a little less mysterious, I've seen how acknowledging our flaws is key to healthy relationships. 😉 For me? I sometimes overanalyze and need alone time to recharge, which can make my wife question if I'm ghosting her at home! Balancing individual needs and partnership harmony is the trick, though. Cheers to flaws that keep things spicy! 🌶️✨

TrueConfection · Answer

I don’t communicate enough, good or bad. I try to stay under the radar.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

I'm too serious about life decisions pertaining to financial responsibility and people giving respect for people who don't deserve it. And example of this is my ex girlfriend idolized her father who has been unemployed on food stamps for the past 12 years and he plays video games all day. He isn't crippled and yet he is on disability because he "can't control his eating habits" that have caused him to become morbidly obese. He made her go to work when she was 15 to pay bills so he would have more money to spend on his videogames and he also proceeded to convince her that I'm a crazy, selfish, over controlling, asshole and she needed to leave me. After a year of us being together I guess he got through to her cause we had a big fight and we broke up.

Beckybooboo · Answer

I can be demanding. I become very irritated when he doesn't do the things I want, especially when I don't ask him to do very much! I don't argue or show outward anger, I just quietly mention it and give him the silent treatment. It isn't that big of a problem for me anymore but in the past I was actually disappointed in myself for the way I would act lol I think I have learned to deal with it better but occasionally, I can feel it building 😡

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

I know my flaws, and I’m honest about them.

I overthink when I care too much.

I get quiet when I’m hurt.

I take time to trust people fully.

And sometimes I try to carry everything alone instead of asking for help.

But the difference is I’m aware of these things, and I work on them.

My flaws don’t define me, they just make me human.

HighValue · Answer

I am very good quality and it has made me intolerant of most bad behavior. I will quickly end a relationship over her having bad morals, being untrustworthy/dishonest, promiscuous (posting provocative/revealing pictures online IS cheating), alcohol use, drug use, unfairness, etc.

The worst thing about me in a relationship is that I am honest. I won't tell comforting lies that most women are used to hearing their whole lives.

Abbycado · Answer

I can’t say. XD Not here. No, it is not perverted.

psfmuiedu905 · Answer

I always tend to think deeply about the long-term implications of things no matter how simple they may be in context. This often causes me to be unable to stop and smell the roses. Plus, I am not spontaneous at all, since my nature is generally more formal. So sometimes I appear more uptight than relaxed, which isn’t always a good thing in a relationship.

FreyaRed · Answer

I'm not willing to argue or to escalate and avoid pointless confrontation but once it happens I tend to scratched earth tactic, what it bad for relationship.

MrChinaski · Answer

I place a lot of expectations on partners. I'm equivocal about whether I want to keep or lose that. But it makes everything a lot harder than a mere friendship.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Sometimes i lose my temper when i'm under so much stress and sometimes my attachement towards the other makes them feel as i'm being a controlling freak and posessive while this ain't the real case at all!

WhitneySnow · Answer

I get easily distracted, especially in the beginning. After we’ve settled into a relationship I’m less prone to distraction.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Me too. And misreading. And getting TOO comfortable and being TOO honest. Trust and honesty is very important to me, but it always comes back to bite me.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Insecurity and texting till it's too much for the girl

Nikki1989 · Answer

I need the balance between together time and my need for space.

Twodogs0525 · Answer

I'm too laid back and easygoing. At times my partners have seen it as weakness.

YourExLover69 · Answer

I think I'm extra romantic, chatty, clingy sometimes, expect chatty clingy partner and I'm very dominant guy. Lol

Shiprex · Answer

My lack of initiative and laziness toward getting things done

dudeinohio · Answer

I'm an introvert. VERY introverted. I'm a homebody and don't like going out much and socializing. I also like a lot of alone time.

Dina88 · Answer

What nothing I’m perfect jk. tend to be demanding, kinda stubborn especially when I’m certain. To point even when I’m wrong.

Sal_Monella · Answer

Not so good, She's kind of dry and distant. Good: She's stable and safe.

msc545 · Answer

I used to have a very strong tendency to cheat whenever I could.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm too picky, so I never had a relationship.

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm ugly and not smart.

ABC1x1x · Answer

I think relationships are the same thing as time. Fake and gay. A social construct

beenherebefore · Answer

I can be insecure and jealous at times

Circushowcowboy · Answer

Insecurity, and my keenness to alone time.

Nerdvana · Answer

I'm not very good looking.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Mostly I don't like to be bothered.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

My low self esteem.

Agape93 · Answer

My anger.

exitseven · Answer

I am a loner.

Zionne · Answer

being impatient lol

Raydergman26 · Answer

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