Is there Anything you Disapprove of In your Relationship?

[Paris13]

Absolutely Nothing, Paris!

Some Things, Paris!

I have Many, Paris!

Another Reply, Paris!

[OlderAndWiser]

My girlfriend is Chinese and almost all of her friends are Chinese, so they usually converse in Mandarin. The only Mandarin I know is

Hello
I love you
Have you lost your mind?

I wish that she didn't spend so much of her time immersed in Chinese culture but I also realized that is who she is and I have no right to expect her to change (just like she can't expect me to stop eating fried chicken!)

[Paris13]

lol Unconditional Love. xx

[Vivaldi]

I can never have a girlfriend. Would I have a girlfriend If I were in Paris?

[Paris13]

lol!!! You are NOT. xx

[Vivaldi]

Paris or Turkey dont make a difference then.

[Paris13]

Pris has been to Sukey and also is Eating it next Week, dean. XX

[Paris13]

Lol!!! Paris... Turkey!!! xxoo

[Vivaldi]

I will never ever have a girlfriend anywhere in the world

[menina]

I'm single Paris. If I were to have a relationship at this moment there's something that I would disapprove of but I would still be in the relationship.

[Paris13]

Some Lucky Guy, @menina xx

[menina]

A guy who doesn't exist.

[SteveSmith1985]

@menina Right! I hear you! Hey @Paris13 your questions make me feel lonely as fuck. Questions about "your relationship" when you haven't got one... suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck when they pop-up on your feed. It's kind-of like being punched in the throat... softly. Just sayin...

[menina]

@SteveSmith1985 I get you. Well I don't feel lonely because being in a relationship right now would be a mistake. However it does suck answering questions like these when you're single.

[TrueConfection]

Those things are either multiplying or amplifying, I'm not sure which. 😠

[Paris13]

lol!!! Awwwwwwwwxx

[AviatorTom]

Why is it that it's ok if the woman doesn't do something, but of the man doesn't do it, he gets chastised. Example, my SO often leaves her recliner up with her blanket messy on the seat. If I do that, she yells at me.

[TrueConfection]

It's exactly the opposite at my house. I can't go for a ride with my husband in his car or his truck because the floor, seat, and dash are loaded with... stuff. He gets in my car and sees 2 water bottles and the complaining starts.

[AviatorTom]

@TrueConfection OK, let's generalize. We don't like that the SO gets to complain about things that the other SO does, but it's okay for this SO to do the same thing.

[TrueConfection]

I wasn't taking a stab at your wording. I'm sorry I came across that way.

[TrueConfection]

I meant that I know what you mean (only... I'm the one who gets yelled at).

[AviatorTom]

@TrueConfection I understood what you meant. The real issue that one of the couple complains about is when one complains about what the other does, but it's perfectly okay for them to do it... and they get upset of the other complains.

How does the old saying go? What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

[TrueConfection]

Yes, the double standard.

[Paris13]

Blah!!! My Fiance, @AviatorTom lol!!! xx

[RobT312]

Maybe this is the beginning of a “honeymoon phase” but now knowing I’m going to get married, there is NOTHING that disturbs me in my relationship right now

[Paris13]

Great, @RobT312 xx

[RobT312]

👍👍

[Jamie05rhs]

Congratulations, Rob!

[RobT312]

@Jamie05rhs thanks man!!👍

[Lliam]

My wife disapproves of me smoking my (tobacco) pipe. I don't do it in the house, but she wishes I wouldn't smoke. Plus she hates the smell. It doesn't cause conflict, though. We get along really well.

[Paris13]

Vape IT!!! xx

[Lliam]

Eeew. I don't like chemicals, artificial flavors or trendy modern gadgets. I get pure tobacco in bags with no additives like the crap in cigarettes. I like the smell and flavor. Plus, pipes are retro and cool.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Few things here and there, nothing serious. Understanding and communication is key. I have my things and the Mrs has her things. Our kingdom can go past that, no biggie

[Paris13]

LOvely!!! xx

[douride2]

@Paris13 I only wish I had a relationship with something in it to disapprove of.

[douride2]

Or not to. LOL

[Paris13]

Lol!!! Sometimes you are Lucky, girl. xx

[KrisPW]

The tiny hairs he leaves all over the sink when he trims his beard!

[Jaximus-Lion]

I can help with that 😁. Am bearded and am a hygiene freak.

[Paris13]

Ohh I hate THAT. I be Too in the Bed. xx

[t-8900]

Out of one atm Paris. It's too complicated for words.

[Paris13]

lol You are NOT, @t-8900 xx

[RebeccaBI2000]

If you discuss it before and do not act on it first, you should be good.

[Paris13]

Okay then. xx

[RebeccaBI2000]

I try to keep an open mind

[Iron_Man]

I don’t believe in having male friends for the girlfriend it always comes back to haunt you

[Paris13]

Now, Tiger, And YOU having Girl Friends with HER? lol!!! xx

[Iron_Man]

Are you the only female friend that I have 😊

[Iron_Man]

You are I mean

[clampfan101]

The fact that I don’t have one anymore.

The fact that the one I had ended with untimely death.

The fact that the only one I had possibly spoiled me from her being so perfect in every way.

[exitseven]

There is nothing about my wife rthat I disapprove of.

[loves2learn]

Nope. Not right now. :)

[Paris13]

Gorgeous!!! xx

[Relux47]

Not in a relationship but I don’t know if there would be anything that I would disapprove of

[ElizaPam]

Not sharing the drugs

[Paris13]

Yikes!!! xx

[paradiseonearth93]

He’s a lawyer and sometimes forgets I exist

[Paris13]

Very sad. xx

[Agape93]

Plenty but i can look past it

[Paris13]

That's great! xx

[NathanDavis]

Nickelback music... that's it

[Andres77]

I'm not at Liberty to say...🙄

[Paris13]

Gulpppppxx

[Andres77]

It's no biggie, we're doing fairly well.

[Paris13]

Great then. xx

[dudeinohio]

No. Everything is surprisingly good.

[Paris13]

Not Surprised with Youuuuxx

[collie22]

do things the right way

[Paris13]

Only One Way. xx

[SloppyBrown]

Talking to exes is a major no for me!

[Wiredone]

I disapprove when my wife says that I'm too strict with our kids.

[Jamie05rhs]

How are you too strict, in her view?

[Wiredone]

@Jamie05rhs when I ask them to do something I want it done right at that moment, not when they feel like doing it. I keep on their backs until it's done. If its not done correctly,
i make them do it over. My wife thinks I should give them time to do it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh. I'm on her side lol.
Why don't you give them more leeway? Say, "I would appreciate if you could do this today, please; not tomorrow. Can you think of a good time that will work for you?". That's the best approach, I think, with older kids or young adults. Or at the very least give them a 3-hour window.

[Wiredone]

@Jamie05rhs when you have to ask 10 times because they never get to it when you give them leeway it starts becoming a problem. If it's not done when you ask, it doesn't get done

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. Maybe try writing a memo on a piece of paper? That way they won't forget.

[Wiredone]

@Jamie05rhs hahaha. They won't look at it. They're too busy on their phones and computers. I've tried everything. That's why I became a drill sergeant

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Okay. Well, I tried. 🙃

[msc545]

Just a few things, not too much

[Paris13]

That's great. xx

[jlynn_jlw]

Cheating, lies, being a flat out prick for no reason and trying to control other people... just to name a few... lmao

[Phoenix98]

I can’t comment as I’m not in a relationship atm.

[humanearth]

Taking vaccines

[Paris13]

@humanearth Let me Guesss... lol!!! xx

[worldscolide]

Believe it or not, nothing.

[Likes2drive]

Once I have one I’ll let you know 😊

[ChiPaPa]

The fact she doesn't exist!!

[BobbyC65]

Not having someone. Bing single.