Relationships

What you can’t tolerate in a relationship?

If the man I’m dating follows a lot of half naked women or in very skimpy clothing tells me he’s not marriage material for me, it’s a big red flag. I didn’t follow any hot guys on Instagram so I expected him to not be following those women on Instagram before I became his girlfriend. When he is just a friend crushing on me I will check out who he’s following before I decide whether he’s a worthy man for me. The reason why I’m like this is because I’m a little religious and I only want a man who is just as religious or more religious than me. Even if he does I had no right to judge him he can choose to do what he wants but I have the right to choose if I should date him. That’s the one of the things which bothers me the most. I also don’t tolerate cheating and dishonesty. I would rather be hurt with the truth than be comfort with a lie.

I’m not saying you should be like me, everyone’s relationships have their own set of commitments, compromises and boundaries so I had no right to tell people what to do in a relationship. I just know what I can or can’t tolerate in a relationship which is what matters to me I would also give in and wouldn’t do things my boyfriend couldn’t tolerate or even hurt his feelings. It’s not fair if I expect him to make sacrifices while I don’t make any sacrifices. If you are fine with your man following those Instagram models, good for you.
What you can’t tolerate in a relationship?
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