What is one thing you would not tolerate in a significant other?

[elaphe]

[Simslover92]

Promises being broken. Commitments being broken. My boyfriend just kind of broke a commitment which I usually wouldn't tolerate but because this was his first time doing something like this, I forgave it. But I don't know if I can forgive it a second time.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll get back to you on that because everything i said i wouldn't tolerate, i’ve kinda been tolerating with my current dude. I see why people say never say never 😭 I miss the old me who stuck to her standards

[DizzyDesii]

But if the guy calls me a B— then its over

[robhazelnut]

If by tolerate you mean to perceive, prefer not to happen and do nothing to stop, then I wouldn't tolerate them tormenting a pet or child in the vicinity.

[robhazelnut]

Correction- doing that to anybody in the vicinity.

[OlderAndWiser]

Violence towards me or others.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love wisdom here, I'd say the one thing I just can't vibe with in a significant other is dishonesty. It's like trying to build a house of cards in a windstorm—just not happening! Honesty is the glue that keeps the relationship puzzle intact. Without it, we're basically playing a game of emotional Jenga, and believe me, it's only a matter of time before it all comes tumbling down. So, let's keep it real and build something sturdier than a castle in the clouds, shall we? 💖

[Apple1996]

Shallowness/them caring about looks, not being sexually disciplined, being a porn user

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 they can’t care at all about looks? So you would date a really ugly guy, like Jason from Friday the 13th ugly?

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 I have dated ugly men lol

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 are you ugly yourself though?

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 I wouldn't say so no

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 are you obese?

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 I weigh 130 while almost 5 months pregnant so you think that's obese or not? Lol

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 no I’d say not. Unless you were like 4’7”…

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 I'm 4'10 lol

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 if you weren’t pregnant then yeah that’s kinda heavy but I assume you are probably closer to like 100 lbs when you are not pregnant?

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 nope I weight only slightly less when not pregnant. Being skinny caused me to be infertile so it's not healthy for me

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 I mean that’s not too bad at least you aren’t obese.

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 my goal is to gain more or keep my preganacy weight

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 definitely shouldn’t gain more but your current weight is ok. Increased weight puts a strain on your heart health and you can get blood sugar and insulin problems

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 my doctors agree with me that I need more weight. I've been considered underweight for years.

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 you need to get new doctors then. Any doctor pushing obesity on a patient is not a responsible doctor.

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 that's not pushing obesity and I've had many doctors even in different states and providers tell me this. I need to be 10-15 pounds more to be healthy

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 that’s absurd. Your BMI would be over 30 which is obese if you were 15 lbs heavier

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 bmi is not accurate for very short or tall people. They use different ways to measure health. I did a body pod before to measure

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 you aren’t very short though, at least statistically you are only kinda short in the U. S. But yeah I’m not saying BMI is the be all end all but 145 lbs is what I weighed at 5’6” a few years ago…that seems exceedingly heavy for someone under 5 feet tall

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 women hold weight differently. And nah I'm pretty short even compared to average women

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 the avg woman is about 5’2” - 5’6” with a midpoint of 5’4”, using standard distribution, 4’10” would be in the bottom 1% which is indeed short but not very short. Average height is the middle 68% roughly, then below avg and above avg takes up an additional 27% combined, so true short and tall only make up the bottom and top 2% respectively…

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 5'4 is half a foot taller than me 😂

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 I didn’t say you weren’t short…but you are only kinda short…not very short. Very short is bottom ~0.1%, and extremely short is bottom 0.01%

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 sure lol regardless of my height I still need to gain like 25 more pounds for pregnancy and it's rough

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 for pregnancy sure I meant more after pregnancy

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 after pregnancy I'm trying to keep some of the gained weight

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 like I said…130 is cool, maybe even 135…140 is really pushing it though and 145 is simply too much

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 this is why I can't be with men who think like that lol. Even my husband is well aware about me being underweight and is worried

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 maybe underweight for pregnancy standards but you definitely aren’t underweight in general…

[Apple1996]

@JHAYES317 in general as well. So much so it was affecting my hormones and periods

[JHAYES317]

@Apple1996 like before pregnancy how much did you weigh?

[LiamS95]

I can vouch for Apple1996, she's hot af

[Apple1996]

@LiamS95 awh thank you 😊

[JonesT10Apr]

during pregnancy... regular BMI levels... and those things cannot consider... with pregnant women

[jennifer_bloom]

Falsehood and Excessive Criticism.

[slatyb]

Disrespect. I could accept other mistakes but a general lack of respect for the other is death for a relationship.

[JacobJordan]

So many things. Drama, yelling, drinking, smoking, drugs, being fat, make up, slutty clothes, high body count, partying few others

[AaronKrieger]

A consistent abuse of drugs. I do not mind if she does it once in a while, but if it is a regular thing, then it I will be turned off instantly.

[AaronKrieger]

then I will*

[TommyMountainFigure]

Simple. For me it is a lack of respect! There is nothing more important

[HighValue]

Liberal morals. That includes most of the bad things that are intolerable.

[Smashingdoozy]

So many things. Racism, sexism, transphobia, anti-lgbtq in general, bigotry to name a few

[Biancam13]

Being a jerk to my family and friends. And/or being a jerk to me.

[StarWarGirl]

Ignoring the responsibilities, and spending more than how much we could afford.

[EndlessVoid20]

I have a list, of things I dislike: disrespect, lying, cheating, stealing, testing me, ignorance, childishness and stupidity. That pretty much sums it up.

[Paul09]

Fakeness, thick makeup , cigarettes unhealthy , selfish, entitled , disrespectful to others and nature. etc.

[Nikki1989]

Closed mindedness, bigotry, bitterness.

[Pinay_ako]

Abusive behaviour

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating / disloyalty is number one, but not the only dealbreaker.

[lorenzomichael]

Not telling the truth, keeping things from me that I should know.

[MemeSupreme]

someone who puts me down like doesn't respect me

[anlgntnfnf]

Nope, I'll be patient the first time and beat you the second time.

[MMelanieM]

Disrespect. Manipulation. Silence

[dustybiker2]

Disrespect. Closed mind.