What’s one thing you’ll never tolerate in a relationship, no matter how much you love the person?

[Emmytexrex]

[jennifer_bloom]

That is easy for me to answer because I do not love people who make me angry, unless the anger is mild and weak.

There are many things I would not tolerate in a relationship,

such as being deceitful and fake,

being treacherous,

practicing virtue signalling,

being judicially or legally corrupt,

mocking or belittling others,

robbing others of their rights,

ignoring very obvious facts,

not having a sense of accountability and remorse when they are in the wrong,

lying when they are caught doing something bad instead of apologizing and trying to make amends for their bad decision,

being greedy at inappropriate times, such as asking church people for money they do not need etc...

[Genie23]

I'm sorry but I can't just pick one. As I have list of things that I won't tolerate, lol

• Cheating
• Lies
• Abuse of any kind
• Arrogant behaviour
• Not taking accountability for his mistakes or actions.
• Bad hygiene

-And the list goes on 🤣

[Emmytexrex]

I know you must have a list you always do lol 😂

[Genie23]

Yeah, That's me. Never have one word answers. Glad you figured that out early 🤣

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I’m with you. I don’t expect someone to be perfect all the time. But someone whose a decent human being takes accountability. They don’t habitually lie. And they don’t cheat.

[Genie23]

That's fair. Sadly finding such people is very hard. Almost becoming rare these days. 😭 I know some people who would make up excuses to justify them hurting you or they'd try to deflect the topic or blame you or others but would never accept their mistakes. It's really draining. So, I keep my distance as I've dated someone who was like that (didn't know he was like that). Never again.

[Finchie40]

Constant yelling and constant negativity between her and I , if she can’t be loving and respectful to me and talk to me in a mature proper way , then I won’t listen to her and I will tell her to get the fuck out of my face , if she doesn’t stop yelling , on a steady basis my ass is out

[exitseven]

It's gotta be cheating. I need to trust people

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[AI Opinion]

Jumping right into the hot topic! As a relationship coach, I'd say lovebombing is a big no-no in any relationship. It might feel like fireworks at first, but it often fizzles out, leaving behind a controlled environment that’s anything but romantic. Keep those red flags in check and remember, a healthy relationship isn't about quantity but quality of love and genuine connection! 💘 Communication and respect are your best buddies in love! 😎

[DishLady]

Lying, cheating and violence are the main dealbreakers.

[Summeroflove]

Abuse. Cheating. One sidedness.

[Emmytexrex]

Yh one sidedness is one big one too it's like you are investing on someone who doesn't want to invest back

[Summeroflove]

And unfortunately many people are in those situations

[lyrem04]

Yelling at me, hit me or raise the arm at me, anything that he’ll do that will make me cry, any even semi abusive behavior, disrespect other women, ugh the list could go on couldn’t choose just one.

[Anonymous]

There are a couple top tier red flag deal breakers:
1. Abusers, both verbal and physical-self explanatory
2. Cheating-Self-explanatory
3. Habitual Gaslighter/Liars-dated one of these, I've lived and learned
4. Unkind people-dated one of these, I've lived and learned, unkind to the world=unkind to you
5. Smoking/Drug Use/Alcoholics-I just can't deal with this, friends almost died

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I can't tolerate absence of kisses, I don't care if she has no mouth. No excuses, I want kisses or I'm out.

[luvstoned4him]

Abuse! Cheating! , Disrespect - First sight of these and am leaving

[fonduegirl]

Children. Addiction. Too hung up on ex. Mommy's boy or Daddy's girl, I ain't a parental substitute.

[RageBabe]

Pretty much everything that Genie23 mentioned.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I will never forgive him for not caring about me, not respecting my decisions, and insulting me.

[Fireguy17]

cheating, that is a 1 and done.
I have an ex-wife and 1 ex-girlfriend that can attest to that.

[Danielle93]

Immediate deal-breakers:

Abuse, cheating, animal cruelty and practices corporal punishment on children

[Starwisper23]

Cheating

No accountability

Not communicating

Not putting me first or not making me feel important

[Chazmatazz269]

Disrespect

[Emmytexrex]

You see disrespect I don't take it likely at all lol but yh

[Anonymous]

I don't like passive/submissive/patriarchal girls.

[NathanDavis]

I can't do jealousy

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Cheating and or any major drama.

[Flowersareawsome22]

A narcissistic.

[Nikki1989]

Total and utter dumbassery.

[Bricealan]

Smoking and or drinking to excess

[Babygirl_S]

Him prioritising another girl over me.

[Staximus]

Cheating or hard drugs

[LiamJHayden]

Cheating on me.
Stealing from me.

[LiaRaven]

Eating my kale

[AndrésC64]

Racism, sexism, any kind of abuse

[queenofcardio]

Cheating, lying etc

[Shy_Steve]

Making me feel insecure.

[msc545]

Cheating is intolerable.

[Bloodparadise]

Nothing.. haven't felt deep love..

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Stress or any types of fights.

[BarryLiverstone]

Murder

[Emmytexrex]

Murder that's what everyone can't take though

[BarryLiverstone]

Correct, I wanted to answer honestly

[Emmytexrex]

Ok no problem

[Miristheiss]

If my girl murdered me... I would be so done with her.

[Ariesman81]

@Miristheiss

👏🏻👏🏻... it needed acknowledgement

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty. I’d say if she murdered a family member of mine, it’s a red flag

[raaz222]

Insult and no respect

[dustybiker2]

Disrespect

[Paige90]

Lying

[Flower7]

Cheating.

[jazzy34]

Disrespect.

[TadBehaya]

Cheating

[WonderingManII]

Cheating.

[Arcadian222]

Selfishness

[Bunnybuny]

Aggression

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Lies

[robocop666]

lying

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Disobediance.

[Anonymous]

Cheating

[Anonymous]

Wbu?