What is the thing you can't bear in a relationship?

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For me I can't stand someone who doesn't trust and put faith in me. This holds me back from committing into a relationship.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

People that don't listen... It was me at one time and I lost a really good partner due to it... I grew and then met the girl that gave me my karma straight away. She was ultra-defensive so just trying to bring up an issue would get met with being cut off and having to hear her shout out her excuses... and then I'd just calmly start from the beginning again. I've learned tricks... like I'll set the stage for "hear me out and just listen for a little bit" and if she does try to cut me off, I'll remind her that she's supposed to be listening. I try to word everything in the most non-combative way possible and then it's like a light bulb got turned on in her head. She'll be on my side about it and then we deal with the problem together... something like her Mom. I think she's probably learned to deal with my flaws as well over the years. I'm ultra cocky and I talk a whole lot of shit... most women can't deal with me. At the same time I think she likes it in secret... if she runs into a problem with someone, all it takes is me stepping into the room and verbally running circles around them until they're basically retarded.

Meh... It's probably because I'm dead sexy though. I shouldn't overestimate myself.

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Gaslighting, stonewalling, not backing me up, putting other females on apedistal, being rude and not sharing what he needed to share. Calling me names and naming all of my faults (I was far from perfect but was just made insecure) and joined then a game with other people. I broke it off months ago. Now he hates me.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Controlling behavior, especially like the dominant/take charge type of vibe that some guys give off. Couldn't stand being in a relationship with one of those type of guys. 🤢

DaveJord · Answer

I can't bare a woman that projects her emotions and feelings on to me, then get pissed that I do not respond to it on the same level that she feels her own feelings and then she cannot understand that her feelings are hers, and more time than not it more about her then me. My feelings are mine, and that matters as well.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

A guy that does not appear in regular contact with me would be a relationship killer for me.

coachTanthony · Answer

bad breath. Brush your teeth people.

molonski2 · Answer

Id struggle to just nominate one , there are a number..
1. More personal hygene , in particular teeth , body odor.
2 . Table manners , certainly needs to understand you dont talk with food in your mouth.
3 . Poor financial literacy , as in no idea , just makes stupid statements.
4 . Says things like " Me and my friend " --no no no
5 . Poor diet with zero idea on nutrition.
6 . Education , not necessarily always formal , but needs intellect.
7 . No degree of class , poor family member , and no clue on presentation.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Indifference or lack of effort.

If you're doubting that someone's into you, or are consistently being treated as an option (not a priority), then it's time to end the relationship and treat yourself with the love and attention that makes you happy and fulfilled.

Finchie40 · Answer

Selfishness, and disrespect, when a girl sets boundaries in the relationship but she doesn’t follow those boundaries as well , she only thinks of herself meaning it’s ok for her to do something but not ok for me , when that happens the relationship turns one sided and that’s when I kick her to the curb where she belongs

Leapfrog00 · Answer

People who lie and play childish games in the process. How girls say all guys are pigs, sometimes I think girls aren't any better.

And then when a girl gets mad at me and doesn't tell me why. That really gets me heated. The silent treatment is childish. And some girls wonder why they are single. Right there! No communication!

I seriously don't understand how some guys put up with this. That's what does me in though. 100%!

juene · Answer

CHEATING, GASLIGHTING, LYING, DISRESPECT, TOO MUCH PRIDE, TAKING ME FOR GRANTED MOST OF THE TIME.

I just described my ex. Lmao. Now I have low self esteem. Hopefully my next boyfriend will be a good guy that truly appreciates and won't take me for granted.

LovingJo · Answer

Ignorance, narcissism, lies, Gaslighting, manipulation, lack of effort.. I'm sure there are  many  others, but these are the main ones!!

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Someone who treats the relationship like a fucking job interview and is too incompetent to stop herself from constantly seeking out "red flags" to the point neither of us can enjoy the relationship anymore.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Disingenuous women. If you're ready for a relationship/commitment then be in it 100% none of this, it's not what I signed up for when you undergo some hard times.

Maxiebleu · Answer

• dishonesty  • disrespect  • sneaky sh*t • controlling behavior  • possessive behavior  • lack of empathy & compassion

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Entitlement. Nobody brings as much to the table as they think they do. There's 8 billion people in the world... you can be replaced.

Bárbara1402 · Answer

Disrespect and being treated in a way inferior just because I am a woman. For example since I’m a woman I should be in charge of some chores.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Lying, cheating, narcissistic attitudes, game playing, gold diggers, posting endless selfies wherever you are, constantly on the phone, smoking, getting drunk all the time

Anonymous · Answer

Telling me it’s “okay to express my emotions” and when I do she sees me as over sensitive and loses physical attraction.

This is by far the one of the biggest double standard hypocrisies modern women propagate. It’s horrible.

richardcory · Answer

Cruelty or any desire to harm others. Land-mine personality where I have to be careful I don't accidently say something that sets her off.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you get with someone who has low self esteem

Yannishka · Answer

Anything that doesn't make a healthy relationship work!

Nikki1989 · Answer

Controlling, possessive behaviour.

sage2021 · Answer

When I'm being lied to all the time! It's given me high blood pressure - not kidding!

catiecatie · Answer

Misunderstood. Lack of communication. Like let’s talk this out better understand each other.

Unit1 · Answer

Making me feel like i'm supposed to be a wallet only because i was born with a penis. It infuriates me.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I agree with you. But the one thing I wouldn't be able to bear would be negativity. If she was constantly complaining all the time, I would dump her.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Dishonesty, humiliation and underestimating my feelings.

RingOfFire · Answer

I agree with the thing that you can't bear. I also can't bear when women constantly press for commitment before I am ready.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I have a lot of patience. But if she steals my HARIBO gold bears, - it's: end of funny.

Reem12345reem · Answer

bad communication, playing mind games , cheating

LavLavLuv · Answer

controlling can't be trusted obsessed with having sneaky links/not being loyal manipulative laziness disrespect

ISFPCaramelPrincess · Answer

Not being loyal, putting me down, constant lying, being flirty with other women, making me clean up for his mess, maybe there’s a lot more than I expected.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, if you're prepared to assume the worst about me, you can fuck right off.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't stand out someone who is egoistic, arrogant i just hate arrogance and when someone let you down and self obsessed people.

Anonymous · Answer

Passive-aggressive, controlling or manipulative behavior, playing games, being disrespectful, infidelity, dishonesty, lack of humility, a sense of entitlement.

HoneyButterCup525 · Answer

Not caring about the relationship or taking it for granted.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Cheating, ignoring me, disrespectful behavior, inconsistency, greediness.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Head games / sh*t tests. I am straight up, so if she pulls stuff like that, I am out.

Juxtapose · Answer

An unwillingness to communicate in good faith.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Her Intimidating me or Embarassing me in front of other People.

Agape93 · Answer

Controlling behavior or disrespecting loved ones

Anonymous · Answer

Too touchy freely and physically needy. I wanna know what else they have to actually offer.

MickXX · Answer

Drama and causing drama. always getting the last word

Luopio27 · Answer

Drugs and alcohol. Gaslighting

Pinay_ako · Answer

Disrespect

inhua · Answer

any form of backstabbing

Justmeagain1 · Answer

Assumptions , social angel and violent homebody.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

Bad attitudes, immediately with bad hygiene.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Princess attitude.

BrookeS · Answer

When the dont tell me why they are mad at me

annabananna · Answer

Very controlling because that is depressing life.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Liars, disrespect, drugs

OddBeMe · Answer

Not listening to me.

noohair · Answer

Complaining is a red flag for me.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Inconsistency.

hiyamotherfers · Answer

stupidity

Crankor · Answer

Being unreasonable.

EVERYONEDIED · Answer

Lie ee

Twalli · Answer

No respect

jimmy2 · Answer

Lies.

Anonymous · Answer

Dishonesty.

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