Does love really exist, or is it just a habit?

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Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

When she walked in the room for that first time there was no habit
Yet I was feeling unwell because I didn’t walk out with her

And it wasn’t a lustful physical attraction

She was beautiful no doubt but the way I felt was more like a punch in the stomach

We’re not together now and maybe never will be but I didn’t think I could feel this way about a stranger until I did

So now I know that I know nothing

It used to be so clear what love was and what it wasn’t

I guess I was just wrong

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

There are 500 different types of love that's why you choose the one you want to love as they do the same

Because love is what you both make it

The one thing that you must remember just because someone loves you and you love them in this moment how strong have you made made it because in some point in time it will be tested can your egos get passed it and keep it going .. do you really believe in love and fight for it. Or is ones ego bigger . and they walk away if so then. Someone picked the wrong person to love

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Love is rather addiction. You don't want to love all time and you want gain distance but you can't stop because you get withdrawals like depression, feeling of being let alone... When you met the object of your desire after short phase of euphoria everything normalizes or if they relationship starts to decay it start to be annoying again.
It's not a habit, it's addiction.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

INTERESTING! Read "Plato's Symposium" and Aristotle's Nichomachian Ethics Books VIII-X. You'll love it. (If you're not a big reader, AI it for a clear summary.)

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the age-old inquiry about love! As your friendly relationship coach here on GAG, let me sprinkle some insights your way. Love definitely exists, but it's more than just those heart-fluttering moments. Over time, love evolves and can feel like a habit. It's about building that connection, commitment, and understanding. Like your favorite cozy sweater, love gets better with time, comfort, and familiarity. Isn't love a delightful enigma? 😏❤️

altaboy · Answer

Yes, it exists, but it isn't what most people are thinking about. I didn't understand what love was until I had a child. Love is caring for someone so much that you'll unquestionably put aside all your desires to assist, provide for and protect the one you love. Love is completely different from lust. Love overshadows lust so that you see it for what it is. Lust is just another desire, like hunger or thirst. Desires are about your needs, love is about the needs of another.

I don't know if I made any sense. Sorry!

katiesmuff · Answer

Yes it exists My parents are a prime example and my former boss and wife were another great example of true love. Fortunately for the last 15 years I've been living it as well.!

ChiTown33 · Answer

It exists, it's just rare. Those that would label it a habit really do not understand real love I think. If I'm understanding your question right. Because real love you cannot plan for. It just happens. Don't get me wrong it takes effort. But love is a feeling that's shared and it's reciprocal.

Subgurl · Answer

Yes love exists. Love is a conscious choice that you chose to make. The issue is that people often confuse infatuation and/or attraction with love when if fact they are not the same.

NathanDavis · Answer

it does exist, yes... unfortunately, not for everyone though

DonaldDarko · Answer

Love exists in and of it's self. It's when it's mixed with sex and reproduction that it all goes wrong.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, we have been in love for 17 years. Married for 16.

MJVillarama · Answer

Love’s real, but habits can definitely sneak in too. Sometimes it’s both, genuine feelings mixed with comfort and routine.

exitseven · Answer

It does exist and it is more than just a biological process.

jenna815 · Answer

It's a cycle, and dependant on when you check in that cycle

Xawyx-2 · Answer

It's a feeling, it exists, as a deep emotion.

Bloodparadise · Answer

Love does exist. When once you fall in love, the heart can't come back

GeorgePulchri · Answer

Oxcytocin and Vassopressin exist.  Chemicals that give your instincts to be drawn together.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

It does exists but i don't think that it can be found in everyone...

Jltakk · Answer

It's just an organic reaction between people. No thought behind it, really.

queenofcardio · Answer

Being in love in an incredible feeling

DryGermanGuy · Answer

It’s very real, you can buy it in stores! 🫣

elizamichale1 · Answer

Ofcourse it does honey

YourExLover69 · Answer

In what sense love can be a habit 🤔😵‍💫🤣

BruceWayne32123 · Answer

I think it can be a little bit of both

Staximus · Answer

Of course it exists, little vampire

BarryLiverstone · Answer

You were in love for 7 years. It exists

Raydergman26 · Answer

Love does exist it is every where

Alex-Snow · Answer

I hope it exists

BigBang1001 · Answer

Its all in the MIND

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

I think there is..

ABC1x1x · Answer

Yes.

Batsy01010101 · Answer

It exists

wkhan_87 · Answer

Depends

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Wish I knew

MasterKS · Answer

sex is real.

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