Would you rather come home to a hot meal or to a peaceful cuddle?

Question

After a long day at work, would you rather open the door and smell a nice home-cooked meal or be greeted with a kiss and invited to just rest in your partner's lap and chill out while they stroke your hair, silently conveying that whatever happened "out there" in the world, everything will be ok.

I thought long and hard about this one bc a relative who I know to be "difficult" with food just suffered a massive heart attack... and when he came home all he wanted was to be in his wife's arms and have that "second chance" to rest there with her and feel loved.

Bitter_Sweet94 · Accepted Answer

A peaceful cuddle.

A hot meal can be ordered or cooked.

Peace, safety, and emotional warmth can’t.

Coming home to someone who feels calm, present, and genuinely connected matters more to me than anything practical.

When the emotional space is right, everything else flows naturally.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I’d prefer the cuddle. Affection is more important than food.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I'll take the cuddles. Physical touch comes higher for me than acts of service. I can whip myself up something pretty easily if I'm starving.

But if I'm the only one working, it would be nice if my partner could at least make a meal for me when I get back. I don't think that's asking a lot.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I often eat only one meal a day, and that is often lunch instead of dinner. So, I don't always need food when I go home, but I ALWAYS want affection.

WonderingManII · Answer

I had to use my imagination on this one. Thinking about my old job, I think I would like to be left alone for about 20 minutes and then I would like to cuddle. Cause my old job made me so tired that I would even sleep just about the entire weekend!

worldscolide · Answer

I come home to both. Usually in the order of cuddles then food. None of that is required, but she does it anyway. Granted we cook together.

ryanrhino · Answer

Spending time with my partner would be preferred, as we could make the food together or later we may eat.

Mark987 · Answer

I know how to cook, so I could come home make a fast hot meal. I might sound like a "flake", but after a hard days work, I love coming home to a woman and just talk a bit, cuddle, and listen to music.

Staximus · Answer

I'll take the hot meal first and the cuddle after, but I don't need to be comforted like a child. Maybe I will if my life goes to shit.

MrChinaski · Answer

Hugs are cheap. If somebody goes to the effort of making a nice meal, that inspiration and hard work with the goal of making me happy... that is an act of love in my book.

ohsheeT · Answer

For sure peaceful cuddling.

Spencer10 · Answer

Depends how hungry I am...

Ironco · Answer

I'll be greedy, I'll take both.

snermcger · Answer

Them pans better not be cold or there won't be ANY cuddling.

Cute_User513 · Answer

Definitely cuddles!!!

Anonymous · Answer

I always have a hot meal, but I never had a peaceful cuddle... or any other type of cuddle.

stratford · Answer

I'll take a cuddle all day long please

Cidknee · Answer

Both, in that order. 🫩

LiamS95 · Answer

Cuddling is very nice.

spartan55 · Answer

I'm going to alternate one night to the next.

beenherebefore · Answer

A peaceful cuddle always.

queenofcardio · Answer

Cuddles

fantasticass · Answer

I want dinner!!

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I'm 5'81/2",200 lb. Guess?

dragoblack · Answer

Cuddle sounds amazing

LatinaXv7 · Answer

A cuddle ☺️

loveyouoak · Answer

A hot meal

fish5505_87 · Answer

I can't have both?

CubaPirate · Answer

Why not both

Raydergman26 · Answer

Both

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