Would you be mad if your boyfriend cheated on you, got another woman pregnant and found out he was sending money for the baby he made on you?

[tempirl2012]

I was literally believing my man wasn't sending money for a baby that he says ISN'T his child. All of this time. Smh until the woman showed me the screenshots today. Smh. Yes the SAME WOMAN. it's just sad how badly he's been treating me for almost 9 years. He don't ever post me on Facebook either. Like one person commented on his picture - she told him to tell me; she said hello. He said, 'i don't have a girl. This is the SAME THING he's telling his BABY MOTHER AND OTHER WOMEN TOO. She sent the screenshots of him saying how single he is and he asked to sleep with her. I thought he left her and that baby alone for good. I just bought him furniture for his house while he's telling women he's not with anyone. He's been doing the same thing since we met. I AM talking to another guy and we did mess around but he was messing with his baby mother too... plus my friends came over and shook their a$$es in his face. So I don't know how to really feel about that. 🤔I only slept with him to get over my boyfriend. Which we've been on and off for years. So it's fair anyway. I really don't know how to feel. My friends low key are talking about me too, saying they'll Never take a cheater back. I feel they're laughing at me.

[IndustrialEnthusiast]

I'm 38, M, and a widower. I was with my wife for 21 years before she was killed, and there is credible speculation she was unfaithful at the end. I'm sharing this so you know I understand betrayal and I'm not just blowing smoke.

​I want to offer you a hard truth, but first, a trigger warning: I’m going to ask you to look at things that might feel unfair right now.

​Eventually, once the shock wears off, you will need to ask yourself the hard questions to prevent this from happening again:

• ​Did you ignore red flags early on?


• ​Do you have a habit of picking men who lack substance?


• ​Was there a communication breakdown, or was he just sneaky?

​I’ve had to take this same look inside myself. I realized 20 years of my relationship were difficult because I was blind to red flags. I remained faithful because I believe cheating is dishonorable—to your partner, your family, and yourself. That applies to men and women equally.

​For now, you have to realize that what’s done is done. With a pregnancy involved, there will be zero trust and permanent resentment. I advise you to take this time to reflect. Scream, cry, and heal. But when you are ready, look deep into yourself and ask: What can I do better for me?

​Rebounding casually right now will only damage your psyche further. Your pain is real, but don't let bitterness overtake you. Give yourself time, love, and respect. Regardless of who is at fault for the relationship issues, there is NO excuse for being unfaithful.

​I wish you well and hope you come out of this fortified.

[RavVid]

If he doesn't think it is his he should get a DNA test.

As for yourself, you should dump him if he has stolen money from you.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a mho

[RavVid]

Thanks for mho

[AI Opinion]

Answering relationship questions with a sprinkle of fun and wisdom is my game! Wow, your relationship sounds like a soap opera, and not the kind you want to binge-watch. Your feelings are 100% valid, and anyone would be mad if their partner pulled a stunt like that. You've been on this emotional rollercoaster for too long! Remember, a cheater's gonna cheat, often wearing their red flags like a superhero cape. You deserve love, respect, and furniture-buying for someone who's all in. 😉 Let your friends giggle while you strut into a happier and healthier chapter. 🌟 Keep your chin up, and keep rocking it!

[Summeroflove]

Yeah that’s just evil

[Alex-Snow]

Dump him... block him and move on with your life