What’s a lesson you keep learning from your relationships?

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About yourself or healing?

aaron13547 · Accepted Answer

Im very, very different then everyone else. It makes me feel like I shouldn't have ever tired in the first place; then I remember im not the problem. I make my own problems sometimes, like saying im different then everyone else... Im super hopefully for things to work out but when they dont I feel its like I proved myself right. I keep making this cycle happen myself. I see it. But the hole is so deep I can't see my way out... truth is, I am different. sometimes things just doing work out, healing I think is just accepting im enough as I am. Doing that is a little more difficult. Thats why we keep learning these lessons. God is patient, and this world is a mirror.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It's not a lesson i keep learning it is a lesson I have never forgotten I can only love someone believe in someone to the depth that I love myself or believe in myself to.. or to the depth you allow me too.

Because if I can't or not allowed to then it will never work

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Although I've only ever been in one relationship, it taught me a lot about myself. To try not to focus solely on the future. To try to remain in the present moment with my partner. To be more active in listening and to not be so codependent on them. I need to focus on having individuality and being ok with being alone at times. It's okay to have a partner but don't make your partner become your everything. Have some time for yourself and have your own identity.

That's what I have learned.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I’m too forgiving. I shouldn’t give so many chances.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach aiming to help you navigate love's rollercoaster, I keep learning that communication is everything. I'm talking about open, honest, and sometimes awkward conversations that help avoid ghosting disasters or lovebombing mishaps. I mean, who knew that talking could save you from those dreaded "red flag" moments? 😂 Also, understanding my own needs helps in healing and growing. Besides, keeping a sense of humor – whether during a couple’s spat or a heart-to-heart – always keeps love alive!💖

ManOnFire · Answer

Took me more than once to realize that a partner can have "feelings" for you but then disrespect you. They have romantic feels, but doesn't actually equal true love. True love shows itself in actions far more than words, and those actions will not always be picture-perfect romance novel scenarios.

Anonymous · Answer

You can love, but the reality is when it comes right down to it. The only person you can really depend on in life is yourself. Know that going in. Never forget that fact. You'll save yourself a lot of disappointment in the long run. You'll always be prepared for what WILL eventually, inevitably happen.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I have my own issues and that keeps reflecting on what I attract / am attracted to.

This puts me on a path going from train wreck to train wreck with the occasional fond and happy memories

And with every year that passes and every new romance I feel I get further and further away from the true happy and healthy romance

But there’s hope.
Self improvement never stops

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Effort needs to be reciprocal. If the person is giving you that very basic level of effort back, just get on out. Relationships shouldn't be exhausting.

RavVid · Answer

That they are temporary. In my district & family marriages were till death do us part and I guess I succumb to that notion.

ibduved · Answer

If the person you're with breaks up with you, and you're still madly in love with them even though they hurt you, just let go and don't try to get them back. If you don't you're only hurting yourself more and they probably don't care about you anymore. It's not love if you have to convince them to love you.

CherryLove007 · Answer

That the only job I have is to take care of myself always.

UrLoveMocha · Answer

They’re not used to unconditional love and someone who REALLY cares about them. I’ve heard it so many times that people think I’m faking it, until they’ve stuck around and gotten to know me more.

MrChinaski · Answer

Do the things you can control exquisitely well and from a place of love. Don't bother caring about the rest. Chips fall where they fall.

Anonymous · Answer

That's the problem... I don't learn from them and fall for the same type of guy 😅

hellosweetie49525 · Answer

That i made the wrong choice. Over and over again. Because i was scared. And conflicted. And now i may never be able to make the right choice.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nothing anymore. Thankfully my lessons came to a close when I met my husband.

sage2021 · Answer

They are only temporary.

LiamJHayden · Answer

That I am a great friend but an awful and hyperjudgmental romantic partner.

Zionne · Answer

i learned to chose peace than fights

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

That no one deserves me till now!

AgentG111 · Answer

Humans are idiots and women lie.

888theGreat · Answer

Which is the female here?

Anonymous · Answer

I never had a relationship.

Chocolatetwopoint3 · Answer

never been in one

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