Women, is a man’s size important to you in a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

[smashleyy]

Yeah. I haven’t ran into the issue of a man being too small yet. Even with an ex that was on the smaller side he could still pack a punch in the right position😹. But a man being too big is something I’ve experienced. I enjoyed it at first and I’m all for a little pain with pleasure but every time in every position? It got old fast and I started avoiding getting intimate with him

[Asker]

That's what I hear a lot. Glad I don't have to worry about hurting someone lol. As my ex said, "you don't hit the end but I know you are there" lol. Wider than avg but too long lol. Sorry if tmi

[Abbycado]

I mean, my boyfriend is more than adequate, but it is hardly the reason we’ve been together for as long as we have.

[Asker]

I do think it matters but not the most important thing as well. Just curious mostly. You mind if I ask if you know his size?

[Abbycado]

Well, I would be purely taking a guess. I have never asked "how big is it". So, you will be relying on my horrible ability to estimate size. XD

[Asker]

lol no worries. Just curious mostly glad he is good for you

[Abbycado]

It is honestly not length that does the trick. It is thickness. That was a struggle in the beginning since he is my first, and naturally, I had no idea what I was doing. That said, it got much better over time. That's about all I will really say publicly about it.

[Asker]

Glad to hear lol. That's what a lot of guys say but has been my experience. Have had some problems but after a while it's enjoyed.

[Persephone02]

It's hardly the most important thing in a long term relationship though I would be lying if I said it didn't matter at all.

[Asker]

Agreed. It does matter to a point in my opinion but not the most important thing. Not like you use it at all times hahahah

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate? Curious on your thoughts. thanks