Is the size contrast between you and your partner attractive for you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Like when I think of the hands of my ex-fiance, they were almost 3 times as big as my hands. His little finger was longer than my middle finger.

That was very attractive for me, because I just couldn’t imagine how could someone have hands as big as his.

I even liked his feet, because they were so huge, slim and masculine compared to me. His shoe size was 46 while mine is 36. I often felt like he was a giant with chiseled body and for some reason that made me feel like I was a cute little girl next to him without a worry in the world.

The next thing I loved was his shoulders, not to mention the huge difference between my and his shoulders, his shoulders were so broad, most men looked like boys next to him.

I remember when I first saw what I thought of a very muscular man next to my ex fiance and that muscular guy looked like a child next to him, at that time I thought “How the hell did I get myself this sexy man.”

I also loved that I was so small compared to him and yet, my one wish was enough for him to do just about anything. I loved how this scary, strong guy could turn into a puppy in my arms and how he entrusted me and felt safe with me in return.

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His shoulders though… Sometimes I touched just to check if they were real, he had such a great shape and the best V shape I’ve seen that even the men taller than him actually looked smaller in frame.

That might have been because he was a former handball champion but mostly it was his genetics.

[Guy13]

I get what you are saying. I am seeing a girl with ballerina feet and hands. She loves being around a guy that is over a foot taller than her... both hands through and wrap around right arm kind of hold onto me.

She's not too short even though I have nicknamed her Gnome.-And she does not care so it must be love on her part. She's very fragile and it is a little unsettling to be responsible to something so petite, gentle, and fragile.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

She sounds cute. My ex was also a foot taller than me.

Well, my ex called me a little angel or a little beast jokingly if we were fighting, which was rare lol. Haha, gnome sounds fun.

I think you two myst be a cute couple. I am curious, from a guy’s perspective what made you physically attracted to her in the first place? Was that her fragility?

[Guy13]

Yeah, fragility in a whole sense even to the point of trying to be tough and actually fully disclosing vulnerability. She's traditionalists so 6 figures does not Realize her. It is a conservative guy vibe or thing.

[TomMarks]

My last ex was about a foot shorter than me. (Give or take an inch.) She liked that, her favorite pictures to show everyone (at the time) were when I was cuddling her on my lap. She was my little angel then.

[kaylaS91]

Nope.
I'm 5'10" so never understood that whole thing about women enjoying being 'small'. My boyfriend is taller or bigger than me in every way (6'7" or so) while my ex was shorter than me but I think my only preference for a guy being bigger than me is having to deal with less (unfair) social judgement.

[Anonymous]

Not height I’m the same height but I’m smaller it’s mostly the contrast with shape of our bodies like he has a very masculine muscular body with wide shoulders and I have slim soft hourglass curves.

[Avicenna]

I prefer tall women close to my height

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, actually my ex also liked tall women, I don’t know why he fell for me though. I was a foot shorter.

[Avicenna]

He's probably also attracted to things other than height

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Smart observation:)

[Still-alive]

i never really thought about this really. but i do tend to go for shorter girls. maybe like 5'2 or shorter would be my type

[Nikki1989]

I would prefer him to be shorter, but I wouldn't trade him for anyone else just the same.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think my attraction was kinda rooted in my mind, because he was my first man and I guess, he somehow set himself as an ideal man in my mind. So I find it hard not to compare everyone else to him.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is 4ft6. I love how my dick looks like a giant firehose in her little hands.

[Anonymous]

Short women seem to dig me for some reason. I'm typically about a foot taller or more than my partners.

[Xtendable]

Sounds like you miss him

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, I guess I do.

[Xtendable]

That’s fair. It can be difficult if no one can fill that void in your life

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I dated some guys since last month, but no one seems to be that exciting or as extremely attractive as he was to me. And I don’t want to settle for anything less than that.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not only he was my ideal type physically but I also admired his personality, no one can match that either.

[Xtendable]

Yeah, that can be difficult. I had that when my wife passed away

[Notsoshyguy1985]

I bet you you have the thickest cock thought

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

From what I know I don’t think penis size is related to the size of a man.

And no.

I am just attracted to physically big guys.

From what I know a big penis can’t protect you when you are in danger.

Big shoulders can.

And that’s the type of thing that attracts me.

[Notsoshyguy1985]

I beg to differ
I have seen large cocks used as weapons
Mostly on white women with confederate flags in there truck
I understand
You are biologically attracted to someone who can protect you
That’s sweet

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am just describing what I liked from my experience, as he was my first boyfriend and the only man I’ve been with.

I also liked that people stared at us in streets and that he was intimidating to other men as well. It made me feel safer, knowing that no one would dare to talk up to him.

When I walked next to him, I thought I had the fittest and toughest guy by my side and seemed like that as well. He also had this intimidating and reckless look in his eyes, nobody dared to mess with him.

So I had a feeling that I could be myself with him, like my real self, as feminine and as weak as I truly was. It was like he was everything for me, my lover, my friend, my bodyguard, who while being as intimidating as he was read fairytales to me before sleep cause I had trouble sleeping.

[Notsoshyguy1985]

Did you enjoy his dominance in bed to any extremes?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why would you think of this question?

If I didn’t enjoy anything about him, he wouldn’t be my fiance.

[Notsoshyguy1985]

That’s beautiful

[Anonymous]

It's not the contrast itself that is attractive to me. I am just attracted to smaller women.

[SnowedIn]

It's not something that I even think about.