If love were a job, what would be the most important requirements on the application?

[ElenaSeluna]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

If love is going to be a job, I will fall madly in love with unemployment.

Most important requirements? A well-crafted set of psychosocial skills

[ElenaSeluna]

That was a very unique answer 😄

[ChicoFromThe305]

Empathy, honesty, loyalty and proper communication

[ElenaSeluna]

Yeah, communication is very important

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed

[DishLady]

Love is supposed to be the farthest thing from a “job” that the human heart and mind can experience. It’s supposed to elevate the soul….


The requirements would be…
Honest empathetic gal with heart of gold seeks Honest empathetic guy with heart of gold looking for a permanent gig.
F*ckboys need not apply.

[ElenaSeluna]

That was perfect ♥️

[ohsheeT]

Where do you see your self in 10 years

[ElenaSeluna]

That’s a good one, apply for any job

[serious]

Well, this is a good question. I have my standards both in terms or physical beauty and personality aspects and I give importance to both. If I mention it they will quite long. I will mention a few of the them though:

Physical aspects:

1. Well toned physique.

2. Super short BOY CUT hairstyle ( a must). This is the only type of hairstyle that appeals to me.

3. Fair (skin tone).

Personality aspects:

1. Nice, kind, caring and a sweet type of woman.

2. Mature/Maturity: I will never tolerate any kind of manipulative mind games like using the jealousy card, throwing tantrums or other type of immature and childish behaviours.

3. Communication: She must be very good at communicating. She must be good with her communication skills also. I mean replying to messages etc within reasonable time frame.

4. No self destructive bad habits: This is self explanatory. This means no drinking, no smoking and any other bad habits that are potentially dangeous.

5. Respectful, understanding and supportive as a person.

Yes these are some of the most important standards I have both in terms of physical beauty and personality wise. For me both are equally important and I won't ignore one of the other.

I have always been single. My standards are very strict and hence my type of love will be very conditional in nature. This means I will always be alert and will always be cautious about even the little red flags or negative behaviour that I notice. The moment I see any behaviour which would displays a red flag or a negative behaviour then instantly the woman will be out of my life and forever. I never waste my time on dealing with emotions and feelings. I am always logical and rational as a person and all my decisions will be based on logic only. This also means the woman has to always be at her best almost all the time as the margin for error is very less.

Yes love is important but for me LOGIC and doing what I believe is right is more important

[ElenaSeluna]

And what if she has all these things you’re looking for but she has that very amazing long hair and she loves her hair😄

[serious]

@ElenaSeluna

Well, all the standards that I have mentioned which includes both physical beauty and personality aspects have to be naturally met by the woman. Which obviously means that the woman must have super short BOY CUT hairstyle and out of her own will, I mean she is such a woman who has always kept that hairstyle since her childhood days and for whatever reasons irrespective of her relationship status.

The answer to your question in short, she is well within her rights to have long hair but as I said it clearly, for me physical beauty and the woman having super short BOY CUT hairstyle is a must. If she does not have this then naturally she will not be considered for love.

All the standards that I have mentioned both physical and personality wise are important and none of them will be ignored. I will not ignore one aspect for another. Yes my love is very conditional in nature.

If the woman naturally has all the standards that I have mentioned then maybe, just maybe I can consider it further. Otherwise there is absolutely no chance. I am fine with the consequences but my thinking will never changes. (By consequences I mean being single for life.)

This answers your question.

[ElenaSeluna]

Good luck with finding that one

[serious]

@ElenaSeluna

Okay. Thanks

[FunkyMonkee]

That's REALLY hard to say because women are SO INCREDIBLY HARD to please and will change their mind second after second!!
SO MANY times I presented myself to them the way I was always told they'd want a guy to be and they NEVER went for ANY of it and would ONLY chase after the guys that were THE EXACT OPPOSITE of what I was always taught!!

[ElenaSeluna]

Yeah, we can’t avoid unstable people

[rachel776]

don't make a move without clearing it with HR

[ElenaSeluna]

If I see anyone from the HR, I would rip off my love application immediately 😄

[Nikki1989]

Kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, honesty, and integrity would rank at the top of the list.

[ElenaSeluna]

These are a must

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely.

[queenofcardio]

The potential candidate must have the ability to trust , respect , commit and be loyal to another individual

[ElenaSeluna]

Absolutely

[lightbulb27]

good q

Listens without reacting...

Demonstrates consideration for others feelings

[ElenaSeluna]

Yeah, we lack that nowadays

[uzumymw]

Passion and education (knowledge of how to love)

[ElenaSeluna]

Passion is a very important requirement

[uzumymw]

What are your requirements?

[ElenaSeluna]

I want him to be himself, without any pretense, because that’s how I’ll know he loves me, we’re only truly ourselves with the people we love

[uzumymw]

That is true! Once you trust someone to be who you are, it's more intense and you can rely on each other

[MrChinaski]

If you are applying for love then you are unsuitable for the position.

[ElenaSeluna]

How come

[Spencer10]

Well an applicant who has experience with passion and zest for life as well as an advanced degree in respect may get a job offer from me.

[Kingofkings1992]

Kindness, loyalty, authenticity, and supportive

[ElenaSeluna]

Yes to all

[Bobby248]

Love, care, encouragement, intimacy

[ElenaSeluna]

Yes, yes, yes and yes

[Bobby248]

DM me

[ElenaSeluna]

Why?

[Bobby248]

To talk about more on love and etc

[beefcakebradybatson]

Money for lads, a great body for lasses !!!

[wkhan_87]

Loyalty

[ElenaSeluna]

Definitely