Why do men treat beautiful women better in a relationship, even if the woman isn’t a good person, vs a cute/average woman?

[Anonymous]

[a_gallant_one]

Because they're weak, immature and emasculated. Cute and kind girls are the best thing that can happen to any man, yet we rarely pay enough attention to them. But it might be the guy's personal problems, too. I am currently single and struggling with many problems and i pay little attention to both extremely hot and "average" girls (but, you should really know this, all kind-hearted girls are immediately hotter once they show how good they actually are, and i know many genuinely beautiful girls, hotter than average, who are also very kind to everyone, and they're actually hotter than all the dumb sluts and, trust me, there are men who like this, it's not just a stupid statement to make you feel better, you should feel good about yourself anyway, and i'm sure you're not "average" at all). Why do we pay more attention to hot, rude, mean sluts? Probably because they always offer all they've got, they dress in a way that shows their body parts (this definitely is hot, which doesn't mean good girls can't look this good, but a good girl should know she should be like this for her lover's eyes only, not for everyone), they also literally offer them selves to us all the time, because they don't have enough self-respect either, they're just looking for a few things in life:power/status, fun (which usually means sex), and money. Please don't change anything about yourself, I'm sure you're a great girl, and i'd really be happy to make friends with you.

[Finchie40]

Because those men are simps and they enjoy being with a beautiful girl that walks over them , and tells them what to do , instead of being with a girl that wants to be his partner and treats him with love and respect and kindness and loyalty. The only reason that beautiful girl is a rude bitch , is because she is with a wimpy man , that beautiful girl sometimes goes behind that wimpy man’s back , and spreads her legs to a masculine man , and sometimes the simp gets off of that as well. I screwed a few married women that had wimpy husbands , and even though they found out she was cheating on them with me , they still took her back , which blew my mind

[MontBlanc]

It’s mostly about **perceived value and social conditioning**.

Men (and people in general) are often biased toward conventional beauty, so attractive women can get more attention, even if their personality isn’t great. True connection comes from character and compatibility, not looks.

[Abbycado]

They might be willing to overlook certain things because she is prettier than most. I don't know why anyone would put up with a person that has a lower quality character just because of their looks.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship madness so you don’t lose your mind in the process 😏

Men often treat “beautiful” women better because of social conditioning, ego, and scarcity mindset. She’s seen as high status, so he tolerates red flags, bad behavior, even disrespect, out of fear of losing her. Cute/average girls get taken for granted because some guys assume they’re easier to “replace.”

Healthy men value character over looks. The rest are just lovebombing, simping, and playing themselves.

[ohsheeT]

There are so many men out there in so many women that are just toxic for each other

It just depends on the man and it depends on the woman in relationships like that. There's too much ego involved , no matter if they're rich or poor any of those type of relationships\nEverything's an argument , and that's just , so wrong on every level

That you also have good men and good women in rich relationships and in poor relationships. It's just depends on the guys and the girls

[OneViewpoint]

Honestly? I don't do that. I probably have less patience and tolerance for a "perfect Barbie" than an average looking woman. But that's only if "Barbie" demonstrates an irrational sense of entitlement based on a lifetime of never hearing the word "NO" because of her looks. I try not to make assumptions about a woman without witnessing bad behavior.

[Bricealan]

Because the moron is insecure, and afraid if he does not let her get away with her bullshit, she will dump him! Beautiful or no, the insecure man is a real candy ass when it comes to that kind of thing.

I knew a couple like that and the woman, somewhat pretty, talked to this half-wit like a dog and he put up with it. Sad to see, but it happens.

[itsannalee]

It just the same like when people see a cockroach on the floor, they might step on it or kill it, but rescue it if they see a butterfly on the floor. Humans are visual creatures.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's so painfully true lol

[itsannalee]

Yes, I can’t lie that I don’t even like a kid when I don’t find they are attractive or cute.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

... Though I believe this painful truth can be managed for the best, I mean I'm not going to find the cockroach pretty, whatever I do, but I can at least look at how my instincts produce discrimination. And from there maybe... Things could change.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'm not much into interpretative biology, because it smells like bad science. But for the fun of it, it's tempting to think of beauty as a sort of cognition-killer?

[NathanDavis]

I don't even get in a relationship with a bad person... that make zero sense to me, lol

[aceleon]

because we are physical entities with physical attraction.

we don't live inside spirit realms.

[realbiggrin]

Can I ask a question before I answer.
Why did you say cute and not ugly or homely?

[Nikki1989]

That is people in general. It has nothing to do with gender.

[Purpleronnie]

Some men might just like some women might but I couldn’t say as I haven’t nor would I …🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[Berethor]

Men are Strong, Women are Pretty Trope, Men tend to Value Beauty above anything else.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The pretty woman gives them a higher social status so they want to keep her around longer

[slatyb]

There are plenty of men who treat beautiful women badly.

[Anonymous]

Better genes => better treatment
In terms of evolutionary pressure it's logical and natural, like we are nicer to tall men.

[In_Trance]

"beautiful" and "cute/average" are subjective terms.

Your logic is flawed

[beefcakebradybatson]

Most men desire a beautiful bird rather than an ugly broad, so they'll treat the babe better than the plain Jane.

[Anonymous]

Young men are foolish and are easily swayed by a pretty face (as are young women). Some people never grow out of that.

[queenofcardio]

I haven't noticed that distinction

[TonyMetal___86]

Personally i like the cute average woman

[qwerty2469]

I do t believe they do. Share your research

[Anonymous]

Because men always worship beautiful women.

[exitseven]

a lot of them do.