Who is your Valentine? Who do you wish to be your Valentine?

[TheLovelyWoman]

My husband is my Valentine by default, but I wish my Valentine is my coworker this year. He has been very attentive and helpful.

[Anonymous]

lol another example of women never being happy. You’re pathetic. Your husband is your Valentine’s Day by default? Not cause you want him to be but because you’re married to him lol it’s like ok you’re my only option so I guess I’ll pick you.

[strateguy632]

I wish Nicki Minaj, Trinidadian rapper and singer-songwriter to be my Valentine. She is talented. Skin color doesn't matter to me.

https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-45141921

[emeraldsaphire]

Nicki Minaj huh? I like some of her songs, but they are random AF. XD

[emeraldsaphire]

My husband is! We are going out to this restaurant tonight. Hubby got the tickets back in October. This place is in high demand. So I'm excited.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy hearts and spicy situations like this one 😏

That “attentive and helpful” coworker glow can feel addictive, especially when marriage feels... routine. But wanting him as your Valentine is a big red flag for what’s missing with your husband. It’s emotional cheating territory, even if nothing happened.

Crushes are human, acting on them is where the damage starts. Use this as a sign to revive things with your husband instead of romanticizing the coworker fantasy.

[Berethor]

You always want to cheat on your husband, disgusting. Can't make a ho a housewife.

[TheLovelyWoman]

I did not mention anything about cheating.

[Berethor]

You always talk about chating, and you wish someone else as a Valentine, it cheating.

[TheLovelyWoman]

A wish is a wish.

[qwerty2469]

Get a new job or a divorce, or You will drag this out for 6 years and nobody will be happy. You'll get caught or ask for a divorce when you are ready but your co worker won't want you when you aren't another mans problem.

[qwerty2469]

To answer your question. My wife is my Valentine, but I wish it was my old best friend. We had a 6 year long distance emotional affair for 6 years but she disappeared when I filed for divorce to be with her.

[Anonymous]

How can Valentine's Day mean anything to a serial cheater?

[ohsheeT]

Still dont have one this year

[LiamJHayden]

I take all my single friends out so that they don't feel lonely.

[Ironco]

Don't go there little lady...

This is coming off really bad...

[fish5505_87]

Since you put it that way, can I choose my son, or my dog?

[In_Trance]

Of course by default. I'm sure he wouldn't be if he's known how many guys have run through you

[NathanDavis]

I don't do Valentines

[Zionne]

that would be acceptable for that reason

[LiamS95]

I want you to be my valentine.

[beefcakebradybatson]

A buxom bird !!!

[razor97]

I have no one to turn to

[Siajanua2027]

Why are you still married?

[Rickyboy100]

Hopefully he can work you good. Have fun

[zombiewoof]

Enjoy the coworker

[CubaPirate]

My partner

[Anonymous]

I hear you 👍