Does it scare or affect you if someone is overly dependent on you?

[DarKnight36]

It can get boring after a while.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship dynamics… and this one is a big one 😏

Yeah, overly dependent partners are a huge emotional red flag. At first it can feel flattering, almost like lovebombing, but then it turns into pressure, guilt, and boredom. You lose your freedom, your mystery, your excitement.

Healthy attraction needs space, independence, and a life outside the relationship. Too much dependence kills the spark.

[Abbycado]

Have not experienced that in my current relationship. We are both very independent. Any other way, I wouldn’t like it.

[DarKnight36]

I understand you mean that if the attention is excessive, you'll get bored, is that correct?

[Abbycado]

More so annoyed.

[DarKnight36]

You're saying you'll cut me like in Kill Bill, I guess. LoL

[NathanDavis]

nope... I've done coparenting, lol

lots of family babysitting... I have/have had pets

it's not scary... it is a responsibility