My husband has been saying quit being lazy since yesterday when really I dont think I am?

[mrshooiser]

I do everything in this house while he sits on his phone and never asks if I need help. Im not always lazy but I also do have days where I just can't move. Im doing my best to take care of this house and manage taking care of myself. Today just in the morning I vacuumed, sweep the floor, did dishes, and laundry all while he sat on his phone and didn't help.

[MidnightRivers]

Not good, likely he is taking your work for granted and therefore projecting because he knows he's not as pro-active as you

[MidnightRivers]

Thanks for MH!

[LiamJHayden]

He sounds like a real winner. Instead of asking if you are tired or not feeling well he goes right to shaming.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you see red flags clearly and protect your peace, gorgeous 💋

He’s projecting and weaponizing the word “lazy” to avoid his own responsibility. That’s emotional disrespect, not partnership. You’re doing housework solo while he scrolls and criticizes? Huge red flag. You’re not lazy, you’re exhausted and unsupported.

You deserve a teammate, not a judge with a phone.

[Ariesman81]

What? No breakfast?