I do everything, yet he calls me lazy?

[Anonymous]

I clean, cook, serve him food, do laundry, babysit, yet my husband says that im lazy. He doesn't even help me with any of these, only help watch the baby while i cook. He doesn't even wipe poop or change the diaper, he waits for me to do it. Everytime we argue, hed say that im lazy and can't do anything at all. Does he not see the things i do or he just wants to ne an asshole to me?

[Anonymous]

That 's exactly my situation. The difference is that I'm not married and I do not have a baby.
No matter how hard I try, no matter what I do, my mother is always saying I'm lazy and she calls me names. She's a horrible person!
I'm sorry. I think your husband is being an asshole. Maybe you should do something about it.

Be strong!

[lovydoey]

Then have a day in the spa and let him do all the world and see how "lazy" the work it really is. I mean really... A marriage is about partnership he has to help a little, support u even when doing chores

[CyberToothTiger]

He sounds like he wants everything a one sided marriage
and it shouldn't be that way, he should partake cleaning the
house, doing laundry, cooking supper, babysit. I think you need
straighten him up a little bit. Be strong for your baby Hun !

Best wishes on things and hope they get better !!!

[Asker]

He does. Anyways you are right, thanks a lot!

[CyberToothTiger]

You're Welcome :))

[writing_essays]

divorce him.