So this Housemate who has been living with my mother & I since 2018 . Has been basically saying that he was going to help me out yet has been using my bank account for his own liking and tells me that I have been using him anyways like everyone in his life. Which I actually have bills which are still needing to be paid back which are now in debt collection. Like a $2,689 Verizon wireless which I had placed in my name and everything back when he had found out that I was able and approved for a iPhone XR and a iPad and apple watch which he actually was pretending in the sales person and the whole Verizon store saying things like " I want my little sister have all the latest apple products. " He said to the guy and even though he was the one who had won the money from the horse race yet he then told me after we had left the store and at his vehicle told me that he wanted me to take the apple watch off and then I was unbelievable about how I just got tricked by him. Which I still now have to pay for everything because he also tricked me when we tried to go back to another Verizon wireless store which is not even 1 week after services from Verizon wireless was him using everything including the iPad which we went with everything and the paperwork asking to return everything yet the female was lazy and told us that she was closing yet 🙄 she totally not even closing and it was actually Christmas time in December 2018 because it was no one but a guy who she laughing and seems more then just some customer talk and so that female told she would not do that and told me I needed to go to the original store. Which was just bull crap. I just don't know how to ask my so-called friend to help me out even though he keeps saying I have been using him to go places and then that it is my fault for not being able to save my money. Yet he keeps telling me I am just trying to put all the blame on him. And also he is not even my biological or adopted brother we are just Bed friends.
How can I let my housemate know that I need him to stop using my own money for things like weed and also stupid for video games systems & a 75 in. TV?
Tell him from now on he has to earn his own money. Then be sure he doesn't have your credit cards or bank cards. Be sure he can't get into your purse or find your cash. It sounds like he is nothing but trouble and you will be better off without him.
He can only spend the money if you allow him access to the money. If you don't want him spending the money than cut his access or threaten him with going to the police.
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