I think splitting the mortgage payment is more than fair for him. Since you're not married... if y'all split up at some point, the house is 100% his and he gets 100% of the appreciation/equity in the value of the house.
How long have y'all be dating?
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Until you're married, just help pay the mortgage if you're living there. He has to pay the property taxes regardless if you're living there or not.
STRONG recommendation: Do not live with him until you ARE married.
STRONGER recommendation: NEVER... I mean not EVER get pregnant with ANYONE until you are married.
If he don't want to get married you shouldn't help him pay his taxes cause he doesn't see you as his long terms partner.
He's the owner of the house.
Not you.
I wouldn't. Tf.
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You're being taken for a ride in more ways than one, kiddo.
You should have a lawyer draft up an agreement for your portion of the equity. Right now you are eligible for nothing, if he boots you out tomorrow.
You are only a girlfriend, not a wife.It's primarily his responsibility and he understands that. It would be nice of you to offer as his girlfriend to help but it's also not your responsibility and he'll likely take care of it.
Well if you do it do you have to do it under the absorption that you never going to get the money back because the odds are you won't and if he was not to marry you that would kind of piss you off so it's up to you
The monthly mortgage payment includes, in most places, PITI (principal, interest, taxes, insurance), which are kept in escrow and physically paid by the mortgage company. So, YES, you should help pay the house taxes.
Thats on you,
But if was me. It would depend if I can afford to help, are we really going to be together in 40 years or even 60 years down the road.
Sometimes I would to be just generousWhat did you pay for rent before you moved in? Give him at least half of that since he’s housing you
That should be his responsibility.
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