He doesn’t keep his word even when he says he swears or he promises and gives a pinky promise yet he expects me to keep my word. He wants me to always tell him what he wants to hear so he’ll keep bugging and bugging me about it. And if I don’t tell him what he wants to hear then he gets mad. He’s called me bad names several times like “whore” or “fucking bitch”. He makes excuses for everything yet he says I always make excuses. He says he wishes to live with me yet when I ask him about it he says things like when he’s 40 in 4 years or that he doesn’t know if his mom would want it or that he’s not ready and he’ll ask me “Why are you always rushing me? What’s the rush?” And he gets mad and argues with me and disrespects me like if I don’t want to speak Spanish and I want to talk in English. His mom does everything for him and he expects the same from me and says it’s all my job if we get married. He expects me and his mom to do everything and he says he wants to be treated like a king but how am I or anyone supposed to treat him like a king if he won’t do anything but be lazy and he won’t treat a woman like a queen? And he asks me why I wanna live with him and he says it’s because I wanna go through his phone and I say no then he says “don’t tell me no.” And he always acts like he always has to know what I’m doing, who I’m with, where I am and everything. And he’ll tell me to call him when I get done eating or come back to where I live and he’ll end up blowing up my phone with a whole bunch of calls, messages and voicemails before I even get to the point we agreed on and he won’t stop until I answer. And I hate it how he always blows up my phone like it’s an emergency just for me to call him back or answer and the call is only a minute or not even a minute long. I realize that the only reason why I keep going back to him and putting up with him and his crap is because I’m scared to be alone and I find it really hard and my loneliness kills me.
Would you keep someone who expects everything from you but you can’t trust them?
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