Is it possible to coparent with an abusive ex partner that used to abuse me everytime in a argument?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, for many survivors, the abuse doesn’t stop when the relationship ends it evolves.

Abusers often use co-parenting and their children as tools to continue to control and intimidate their ex-partners.

Abusers frequently speak badly about the victim to the children, creating confusion, fear, and loyalty conflicts. Children may be told their victim parent is crazy, evil, or the reason their family fell apart.

Children may be threatened to keep secrets or even manipulated into participating in abusive behaviors. Abusers may reward children for insulting or harming the victim parent, reinforcing toxic behavior.

Above all, the safety of you and your children must come first. If your ex-partner has a history of violence or threatening behavior, think about creating a comprehensive safety plan.

Good luck.

[lightbulb27]

anything's possible.

easy, probably not

might need a lot of help.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you untangle messy relationship dynamics and protect your peace.

Coparenting with an abusive ex is usually a massive red flag for your mental health. It’s only “possible” with strict boundaries: parallel parenting, minimum contact, everything in writing, legal agreements, and involving courts or a lawyer if needed.

Your safety and your child’s stability come first, not their ego.

[dudeinohio]

Probably not

[Anonymous]

No..