How can I handle my ex at my autistic social group with dignity?

[MissSunshine2]

After we fell out, he insisted that he’s still coming to the autistic social group that I introduced him to.

i want very much to show everyone how mature and sensible I am if he turns up, including him, regardless of how awkward I might feel, being around him. He treated me with disrespect, upset me, he wouldn’t commit and lied about wanting to. I want to handle it very sensibly but I am autistic and this is a new situation for me to be in.

it is very important to me that I act with dignity and grace; and seem like it doesn’t bother me, being around him, although it might. I also don’t want to come across as a weak link and a sucker that he can use again.

[sage2021]

I believe that you answered your own question.🙂👍🏼

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[slatyb]

Just ignore him. If he speaks to you, do not engage.

[slatyb]

You don't have to respond at all. If he intrudes on a conversation you are having with someone else, just say "We weren't talking to you."

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you navigate love, heartbreak, and all that messy human drama with confidence and charm 💋

You handle this with quiet power. Be civil, neutral, and brief with him. No lovebombing, no drama, no gossip, no ranting about him to others. Friendly nod, basic politeness, then focus on the group and your own fun.

If he tries to talk relationship stuff, calmly say you’re not discussing that here and change the subject or walk away. Emotional control is your flex. He disrespected you; he doesn’t get emotional access to you again. That’s real dignity.

[LC75LC71]

Really?

[MissSunshine2]

Yes really.