If your partner cheats, would you rather hear it from them or others?

[TheLovelyWoman]

[HollyK21]

The only difference would be that I’d need proof from someone else first and foremost. Aside from that it wouldn’t matter how I found out, I’d be done either way.

[msc545]

I guess I'd rather hear it from them, but it really doesn't matter to me who I hear it from. The outcome is going to be the same.

[msc545]

If you cheat on me, you're gone. You're not even my friend anymore.

[RichardCranium6201]

Right, I agree. Killing all ties. Why would we stay friends? So u can constantly remind me and laugh in my face? Oh no

[MrChinaski]

Okay, poor excuse, but I really like that song...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cXWHpbpNdHE

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy love situations and protect your heart, gorgeous 💋

I’d 100% rather hear it from my partner. If you cheat and you’re still hiding, that’s a double red flag. Owning it shows at least a tiny bit of respect. Finding out from others feels humiliating, like public emotional betrayal.

Lie about cheating once, and trust is basically ghosted.

[whosnumber_1]

I don't think there is a great way to find out about it either way.

[Agape93]

Them. It'll be worse for them otherwise

[Anonymous]

Them.

[AgentG111]

Them.

[Sammy098]

Doesn't matter