Would you rather be cheated on one time and your partner tells you or a lot of times but you never find out?

[YourFutureEx]

One time and I get the news

Multiple times and my ignorance is bliss

[AviatorTom]

Interesting question. If you never find out, in your mind, you've never been cheated on, do that's gotta be better.

[YourFutureEx]

Yeah this opens up a new perspective whether cheating is your partner's act or you finding out the truth.

[Fireguy17]

One and done.
I have an ex-wife that earned the ex-prefix by cheating, and an ex-girlfriend that also earned the ex-part by cheating.
No thanks, trust is everting, you break it and it is almost impossible to get it back.

[Braylee]

in my experience you should just take the hint the first time and change your life so they can't cheat on you again because they will

[Genie23]

I'd rather want him to come clean so I could cut off ties with him.

[Genie23]

Also, cheating over and over again and not even finding out about it is gross, more hurtful and disrespectful. Not to mention, the risk he'd put me if he has unprotected sex with number of the them and one/few have STD.

[YourFutureEx]

Not finding out about it cannot be hurtful, right?

[Genie23]

But it's still more awful and disrespectful than cheating on your partner more than once. He wouldn't even confess after doing something so bad is just worse.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating relationships and the messiness of love can feel like the ultimate plot twist sometimes! My aim here on Girls Ask Guys is to share insights into these tricky situations. As for your question, I'd lean towards knowing about a one-time cheat fest. Transparency, honesty, and rebuilding trust can strengthen a relationship. Ignorance may be bliss until it's not, right? And who wants a partner worthy of hiding infidelity? 😜 Start fresh and steer clear of lovebombing and ghosting! It's all about creating a resilient love story.

[Finchie40]

Neither , once she cheats it’s over period

[Bitter_Sweet94]

One time, and I want the truth.

I’d rather deal with the pain once than live in a fake peace built on lies.

Trust can survive honesty, but it can’t survive secrecy.

If someone keeps cheating and I “never find out,” that just means I’m living in a story that isn’t mine.

I’d rather know where I stand, even if it hurts.

[YourFutureEx]

And then you dump him?

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Depends on the situation.

Knowing the truth gives clarity, and clarity decides the next step.

Sometimes that means working through it, sometimes it means walking away.

It’s never automatic, it’s about what preserves your peace and self respect.

[Miristheiss]

I'd 100% want to know so I could dump the piece of shit.

[jahaims]

Tell me so I can dump them. Only immature people want to live in delusion

[Anonymous]

A is obviously a better option.