Straight men, who would you actually choose to marry and why?

[DailyFairy]

This is real life situation, I am curious so no sugarcoating, state facts. Skip the love part, this is what u got to chose

Intelligent woman in her 20s but has 4 body counts

Intelligent woman in her 30s and a virgin, waiting till marriage

[AviatorTom]

If I was 30, like you, and these are my only choices, I'd go with the 20-something. She's going to outlive you anyway, so why not take advantage of her youth and experience?

A BC of 4 for a single person in their 20s is no big deal. That's probably from her time in college

[DailyFairy]

Does make sense

[OneViewpoint]

Intelligence matters. Body count? Not really. As long as she's not a virgin because of trauma or fucked in the head by religion. I've already had one of those. I just want "normal".

But there's a lot more that I'd be weighing in my decision.

• Looks
• Health, Mental and Physical
• Fitness
• Style
• Interests
• Shared Values
• Friends
• Family
• Career
• Introspective Thought
• Accountability
• Empathy
• Work Ethic

[loveyouoak]

Men always prefer younger women, no matter what. That's why they'll choose the first option.

[Jennz6]

No men would ever want me

[DailyFairy]

Why you say that?

[Jennz6]

I’m 37 years old and a very high body count

[DailyFairy]

I don't think men care that much if they like you. I hv seen a lot of women who had many body counts n they are married rn, leaving the virgin women single.

[AviatorTom]

@jennz6 I'm with @DailyFairy. There's someone for everyone. The difficulty is finding them.

[Jennz6]

@AviatorTom that’s true but it’s like if a man wants to get married he is probably looking for a virgin

[AviatorTom]

@jennz6 That's not necessarily true. I wasn't virgin when I first got married and she wasn't either. In today's world, the guys I know are looking for intelligence and personality. Sexual experience, or lack of it, is not a major factor for most guys.

[Jennz6]

@AviatorTom I only have looks, I’m not really smart, my personality is good

[AviatorTom]

@jennz6 Don't underestimate yourself.

[Jennz6]

@AviatorTom it’s just I don’t have much education

[DailyFairy]

@Jennz6 You should always aim to improve yourself especially for yourself not for someone else. People always want and like when something is good and discard it when it's not.

[Jennz6]

@DailyFairy
You’re right

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to expose the messy truth about relationships without the fake fairytale filter 😏

Most straight guys would marry:
The woman who’s peaceful, loyal, emotionally stable, supportive, and sexually compatible.

Not the hottest, not the richest.
The one who doesn’t nag for sport, doesn’t play mind games, respects his masculinity, and is a true teammate.

Low drama, high loyalty wins every time.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Very far from real life situation lol, these 2 options aren't common at all in my surroundings, and even if they were:

• in her 20s = unappealing age gap
• in her 30s and waiting until marriage to have sex = unappealing worldview

[DailyFairy]

It is real, just maybe it's not common in some countries or cultures. But I understand

[loveslongnails]

That's it for my choices? Well I'm 40, so if she's in her 20's it would have to be about 29! I don't care about a 4 person body count. As for the 30 something virgin, not very likely. Women who are saving themselves for marriage have a very different view of sex than I do, and we wouldn't be compatible.

[DailyFairy]

I understand, but why do u think virgin women have different view of sex than u do? I think the only difference is that they prefer to wait than sleep around n i believe that takes a lot of courage to do

[loveslongnails]

That's understandable from your viewpoint, but it's rarely that simple. Have you ever been with a virgin female, or a virgin male? I have, and know of several others, and there's a lot more wrapped up in it than just preferring not to sleep around. At least that's been my experience. It's commendable to not give in to any peer pressure, but I can't speak further to the courage aspect as I haven't researched that question.

[DailyFairy]

That's interesting 😂 but don't generalized trust me😁

[loveslongnails]

Don't generalize," trust you"? LOL You just made your own generalization. :)

[DailyFairy]

Oh well 😊

[Berethor]

30 might be old, but it not too old, I take the virgin as I care about virginity more than age, I also don't think that the 20 is intelligent if she already have a body count of 4.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[ChicoFromThe305]

Second one most definitely, actually most women I've had healthy conversations with were in their 30s so I personally never saw an issue with older women and they look young too, actually women in their 30s look way younger today then 30 year olds did a couple decades ago, you just described my preference with that second one ngl

[jahaims]

How she got the bodies matters. Did she have 4 one year long relationships? 4 one night stands? 4 at once?

[DailyFairy]

The question is very simple tho. Does it matter how she got them?

[Ironco]

Body count doesn't matter.

I'll pick the one that fits my personality

[DailyFairy]

Would your answer be the same if you were 20s or 30s?

[Ironco]

Yes, it would be the same.

[Iron_Man]

Intelligent woman in her 30s and a virgin, waiting till marriage

[Mrtcn01]

i respect second one.. she control her desires and if she control her desires he controlled me.. so i like that woman..

[LuciusTheOdd]

Considering I am like in my 20s, I’d probably date the 20-year-old, Though she is a bit young for me, Now she was like 26-27 That would be nice.

[InknKink]

4 body count is essentially zero.

[DailyFairy]

4 is the new 0 lol

[InknKink]

Not really that new... new since the 60s or 70s. Anything under 10 is perfectly health in my opinion.

We were all young once and experimentation is normal. Anything under 20 is passable. Over 20 is where things start to become questionable, but even then... depends on the character of said person and what they now want for themselves.

That's my take on body count in any case. Although, I'm sure some guys would disagree with me here. People understandably have a hard time empathizing with others who've had completely different life experiences.

[whosnumber_1]

I don't care about body count and I don't care about age. It's all about chemistry and mutual respect

[exitseven]

I married somebody in her 20 with a very low body count.

[LiamJHayden]

From the choices, the 30+ virgin because I am 30 and pretty much have never dated younger than myself.

[AgentG111]

That's the only options? Interesting and can't ask about love or looks and future plans.

I'll take the virgin then. Closer to my age

[msc545]

It will be an absolutely cold day in hell before I agree to something as suicidal as this.

[Anonymous]

Girl in her 20s, I don't care about her "body count" - if she is my type.

[Ariesman81]

It's not that simple

[DailyFairy]

Mmm🤔