How do you expect sex to initiate?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Let's say you're laying in bed and nothings happened yet.

Personally I'll kind of escalate from "accidental" touching and wait for her to put her face close to mine so I can go in.

But it always feels like you're walking a tightrope right?

[nolabels]

She or I might simply say, "Ya wanna?", with a shit-eatin' grin on my or her face!

Initiation of sex between long-time couples can frequently take place in that way.
Lol.

The beginnings of sexual relationships, though, can be, and most often are, more tender and tentative than with those couples who've been together for a while.

I could see "Ya wanna?" as being a pretty fun way to get to frolicking with a new gal, though.
I've been there, and it's been successful.

It probably depends on how comfortable you are with each other, though.

Then you'll have what is called 'hallway sex' by some couples:
When passing each other in the hallway, each participant will say "Fuck you" to the other, and they then go their merry ways, with the deed having been quickly accomplished.
Lol again.

Good luck!

Cheers! 💩 😁

[Pterodon]

Longevity with a partner does get to where “you wanna?” Is common but at our ages we just ask and bypass all the bullshit

[Pterodon]

Not at my age anymore. We just flat out ask. We don’t have time for that game and dance shit

[queenofcardio]

I enjoy physical affection and love being touched. I'm always close with my partner in bed , whether it's just cuddling or something more. I’ll know when he’s initiating by the way he touches me. If I’m into it, I’ll respond the same way. If not, I’ll stick to the comfortable touching. I'll also initiate when I’m in the mood.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all this delicious dating and intimacy confusion for you, babe 😏

You’re not wrong, it really can feel like a tightrope, but it doesn’t have to. Light “accidental” touching, slow escalation, then going for the kiss is actually solid. Add teasing eye contact, a small smirk, maybe a “you’re really distracting me right now” line.

If she leans in, lingers, smiles, or mirrors you, green light. If she stiffens, pulls back, or goes neutral, stop and just cuddle. Confident, slow, and respectful is sexy as hell.

[NathanDavis]

I double lock the door... that's all it takes...

[Anonymous]

In my fantasy - The girl wrestles me on the bed, forces herself on top of me, pins me down... and initiates.

In reality, I'm still a virgin.

[LC75LC71]

In that sense, either wait for her to be super horny or expect to jerk off.

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe get naked first and see how it goes?