Ok first off, that's cool of you.
Second off, you can't go wrong. YOU CAN NOT GO WRONG. I can't say this enough. You could literally act like a complete doofus, and the fact that you are trying, at all, you will be lucky if he doesn't jump you in the middle of whatever you decide to go with. Women just don't understand.
I could give more answers if you defined "initiate sex" more. i. e. are you talking about the lead-up, the flirtation before, or after you're making out etc?
One hot way to flirt beforehand is to do a little sexy movement with your hips.
When he's sitting on the edge of the bed, standing in front of him with your back to him, put your feet apart and stick your butt out a little, swoosh it to the left, then to the right, then left again. If that doesn't get him hot, he's as cold as ice. Seriously, we are really that simple. It's like some kind of biological button in our brain that is irresistable. In my opinion.
Then turn around, and stand close to him, so his face is in between your breasts, cup his head, and sit down on his lap and make out.
If, however, you are talking about what to do to switch from making out to sex, it's hard to give advice without knowing what you already know and what you don't know. in my opinion Grinding first is better than just ripping off the clothes, because it gives him a chance to get a hard on, and then the clothes coming off is less awkward, and usually happens faster :) So start grinding (pushing your pelvis against his so you're basically rubbing his dick with your pubic bone/clit). Another hot move a girl used on me - was she straddled my thigh while making out with me, so her pussy was grinding against my thigh. Oh lord, grant me the strength to resist that if I need to. Of course all the obvious things like kissing/brushing his neck below his ear, and other sensitive areas is irresistible. Wear a skirt for quick off. Try masturbating earlier, to get your libido peaked. (you said you're not sexy minded).
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I still think people should get to know each other first then and starts kissing neck from behind and slowly I'll just stick my hand down in her top then it's on
I'm pretty sure whatever you do he will find sexy, so don't worry about it. Well you could just start kissing him and touching him and end up putting your hand in his pants and start feeling his dick - they usually know what that means. Or get some sexy lingerie and just go sit on his lap and start kissing him. Or you could go with the really crass approach that I did to my ex once - it was early evening, I got up while watching TV and said "I'm going to bed". I never went to bed that early so it got his attention really quickly "Why are you ok?". "Yeah... I just wanna f*ck" and I kept heading to the bedroom. After initial shock he was in there with his clothes off in no time - haha...
Well I would saunter up behind a partner and gently put my hands on her hips and pull her up to me, kissing her neck and shoulders from behind her. That spells things out I think. Try that with your boyfriend and maybe push into him a bit and run your hands gently up his torso, holding someone from behind is always hot though so he should get the message you're up for some fun. Also, you can't go too far wrong and worry you're looking silly while you're doing it :)
Haha, you're so adorable. Ok, less X-rated version of something I do.
If he games a lot (and isn't someone who rages, lol) approach him, sit on his lap facing him and begin to kiss hiss him all over his face and then finally his lips... Hopefully he will be compliant lol, then he puts the pad down and you take it from there...
They're so into the game, it's usually unexpected! Good luck :)
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Guve him a sexy/private dance, lap dance or otherwise. Just have fun with it
You should meet him in a new environment or wear a sexy outfit/roleplay
Take him to ur room then go to the toilet and walk in naked
Just go ahead and tackle him.
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